My ex cheated on me with my best friend. It's been almost three months and I'm still not over him. HELP!!!!
2006-08-30 13:06:54 · 27 answers · asked by goofygoober101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You remind yourself of what a beautiful person you are, and how you deserve to not be cheated on.
Put him and the so-called ‘best friend’ in your past, and ‘value your life’ without them.
In time, he may come to realise how stupid he was, and want you back…
Tough sh*t… You are better off without him!!!
Move on… the best is yet to come!!!
2006-08-30 13:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a betrayal from someone who was supposed to be a source of trust and love. I'm sorry this happened. If you try to set aside your feelings they will only get bottled up and erupt at unpredictible times. As a woman, you probably still bear feelings of bonding with your lover, even though they have betrayed you, but don't allow yourself to be a victim by denying the hurt you feel and shrugging off such a heinous act. Empower yourself by letting him know that you will not let him put you in a position to humiliate you again, and you will not be a victim for him.
2006-08-30 20:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, depending on how long you were together, it can take a while to get over it. My husband cheated on me and left me for my best friend, and it is going on 4 years now, and it still hurts sometimes, but I have moved on, and I am a lot happier now than I was with him, and he is now miserable so see how things work out. I wonder what it is with best friends now days, I have seen this more and more on here... do people not understand that a true friend would never steal your man??
2006-08-30 20:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i know the feeling cause my cheated on me after 3yrs in relationship it has been a yr know and i just started dating again the best thing you can do is not to think about the past but try and think of the future and what you want for yourself there is special someone out there for all of us and i am sure you find your special someone what he didn't see in you what you have to offer someone would love those thing and would make you happy try and not stay home and mope but get out with your friends do u work but more of your energy into do something that you wanted to do to do but never got the time know you do and just make yourself happy it would take times yes but that why they say time heals all wounds and some special to help makes it better
2006-08-30 20:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by sugargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doe,ant die the instant things start going wrong it would be a lot less painful if it did especially when you have been deceived by the two people you loved and trusted although its still early days you must find ways to move on , round all your mate up past and present ,. arrange a few night out if you feel you can not cope with going out then have girlie nights in , try not to dwell on the past , easy said then done i know , keep your self as busy as possible this will help you move forward .
good luck for the future
2006-08-30 20:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been here before caught him cheating on me with my best friend in my own house forgave him never forgot it got back together months later caught him again so no matter how hard it hurts if you go back you will just get hurt worse
2006-08-30 20:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he and your best friend are mindless, that's for sure. You get over by focusing on something other than that situation. Find something to do and nothing that has to do with guys, because that of course will bring back this whole problem.
2006-08-30 20:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take time. To me, that is the cruelest thing that one person can do to another.... even worse that it was with your best friend. You may never get over it, it will just hurt less with time. Allow yourself to get angry, to cry, whatever you need to do to work through those feelings. Spend time with "real" friends. Dont try to get revenge though, that will hurt you more in the long run!! Take care
2006-08-30 20:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey madison personally i wouldnt actually date him (if i was a girl lol) but if youre the type of girls i like, who love a man no matter what, i suggest you do somethign romantic with him and then get into a deep conversation, and if he says youre pretty or your eyes r beautiful or w/e look down deep into his eyes to see if its true.
I hope you find the right path for your heart! Cyaa
2006-08-30 20:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hardy2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go out with his best friend (not the best idea)
or go find a good decent guy and realize you were actually lucky to get out of the relationship.
2006-08-30 20:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by ADF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋