2006-08-30 12:38:22 · 13 answers · asked by brunette 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THAT'S A HARD ONE BECAUSE DIFFERENT SITUATIONS CALL FOR DIFFERENT MEASURES. TO BE HONEST, THERE R TOO MANY DISEASES GOING AROUND TO TAKE THE RISK, BUT GOD PUTS US THRU THINGS TO MAKE US STRONGER. IF YOU FEEL IN YOUR HEART THAT YOU CANNOT GET PAST HIS MISTAKE, GO AHEAD AND CALL IT QUITS INSTEAD OF PUTTING YOURSELF THRU ALL THE DRAMA AND HEADACHES. SOMETIMES A MAN CAN MAKE AN HONEST MISTAKE, BUT U HAVE TO TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION WHAT U WILL AND WILL NOT PUT UP WITH. YOU HAVE TO SET THE BOUNDARIES AND PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS AND SOME PEOPLE CAN REALLY CHANGE. I WOULD DO SOME SERIOUS RESEARCH AND LOOK WITHIN MY HEART FOR THAT ANSWER. TIME AND LOVE IS PATIENT AND YOU NEED TO ASK GOD FOR STRENGTH, GUIDANCE, AND DIRECTION, BUT FIRST AND FOREMOST, U NEED TO FORGIVE HIM FOR HIS ACTIONS AND MISTAKES.
2006-08-30 12:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by angellove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not!!!! you can do better...and not all me cheat. yes, there are the men out there that change, but as a ground rule, don't take the crap! if he cheated on you to be with someone else, he'll do that to her too. you don't need him in your life. even if you have kids. some may argue that you should stay if you have kids, i think that it hurts the children if you stay. especially if the situation isn't resolved. you may say that you forgive him, but the relationship will never be the same.
2006-08-30 19:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me and I stayed with him. I'm not sure how I feel about it though because sometimes it seems that he's changed but I know he hasn't. I guess I'm staying with him for the kids.
2006-08-30 19:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by globalsoule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, the question is can I forgive you after you cheat? If I look inside of myself and say I can't forgive and look at you like you did not do anything then: I'd stay. But, If I look inside of myself and hate him everytime I look at him: I'm gone!
This is bibically sound divorce is only if one is a cheater and you can't forgive.
2006-08-30 19:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by random_thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutlely not...as much as I love him & do not want to leave him, I just couldn't stay. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I would never be able to trust him again & that's a terrible way to live!
2006-08-30 19:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by beachbum26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Do you believe in forgiveness? When you forgive you have to let it go! I mean for real no asking why, how come , did she & etc... just let it go! I know it sounds hard but if you love him and he naturally a good person things can change for the better.
2006-08-30 21:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Keshia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I believe once a cheater always a cheater- and I'm the kind of person who holds a grudge- so anytime we fought- I guarantee it would come up
2006-08-30 19:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is easy to say yes I would leave but hard to do. I would try and be strong enough to leave.
2006-08-30 19:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he really loved you, he wouldn't cheat. There are no excuses.
2006-08-30 19:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife would castrate me and leave. This she has said
2006-08-30 19:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋