Should I Report Him?

Question

I admit to this...I'm kind of a s.l.u.t. So, anyways, this guys in my school knows that I'm a s.l.u.t, so he comes up and exposes my boobs when no teachers were in the hall. I'm sure it was on camera, but alot of his buddies were covering him. I sort of liked it, but should I turn him in?

I'm thinking about turning him in...I slapped him. I'm not tha much of a s.l.u.t! The most s.l.u.t.t.y outfit i've ever worn was a tube top and a mini skirt!

Maybe I should go back to my old ways when I was in Middle School. I was a Punk/Skater. I still skateboard. But I only dress like this because I was being teased to much for dressing in black everyday and wearing heavy eyeliner. I mean I wasn't Goth or Emo. I was a Punk and a Skater. Should I? I really want to! I still have all of my old clothes! And I did not cut myself. That's just gross!

Answer 1

you just said you were a 5lut so whats the big deal. You get what you deserve..

Answer 2

I honestly can't believe some of the answers you've gotten.

How you dress is YOUR choice- nobody elses. You aren't a slut- as someone above me said. That's a sexist term applied to sexual women (never men, although they might deserve it). You also aren't a tease. You're just someone who dresses how you want. And to say you deserved it would be saying that you DON'T deserve the right to express yourself, which is BS. Regardless of whether you liked it or not- that's your business- they shouldn't have done it without your permission. I'd have kicked their sorry asses, and I don't have that bad of a temper. If you don't want to do that, I'd definitely turn them in- for sexual harassment.

As to your second question, if you want to go back to a punkier style, don't let other people's opinions about it stop you. Go for it! A little change is fun now and then.

Answer 3

I think you should stop and evaluate what you are doing.

If you think this is going to be the worst that happens to you - you are wrong. If you continue your behavior and skimpy clothes, people are going to continue to lose respect for you. Once you've completely lost it - it's almost impossible to get it back.

There was one girl at my school - she was the songbird of our school. On a senior trip, for whatever reason she fooled around with one of the 'popular' guys. After, he spread rumors about using a popcicle. Well (regardless if it was true or not) the next time (and all subsequent times) that she sang infront of the school, people chanted popcicle under their breath. The chanting would get so loud that eventually she had to quit singing (thank goodness she was a senior so it was only that year).

You are headed for some of the biggest shameful experiences and again they will only get worse. Please think about it and clean up your act. Report the guy if you are ready to change. If not, then it'll only add to your ridicule.

Answer 4

Are you saying that just because you wore a tube top and a mini skirt your a slut? I'm confussed....but anyway yes......you should he violated your privacy...and he should have never done that.....and not only should you have slapped him you should have kicked him in the balls......hard......then maybe he would think before he did something like that again......I don't care if your a s.lut or a saint......nobody deserves to have that done to them......if you need to talk i am willing to listen so e-mail me through yahoo answers............:)

Answer 5

hahaha, WOW, the fact that you know you're a s.l.u.t is pretty bad, if thats the image you have and like that about yourself then you'll never be respected in life, maybe you should change and set an example by turning him in

what a whore

Answer 6

A slut is a slut. reporting him for what I don't know. You are being a brat about it and you need to grow up. Being a slut will only get you where you are now.A guy that knows you are and knows you have no self respect for your self or your body. Leave him alone ..

Answer 7

If you report him, will anything happen?

You need to start having more respect for yourself. I'm not telling you to stop whatever it is you're doing, 'cause that's really none of my business, but at least respect yourself. We women were not created solely for the purpose of serving and pleasing men. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will. You don't need that sort of attention.

Answer 8

WHAT U DO IN YOUR SPARE TIME IS YOUR BUSINESS!! NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO INVADE YOUR PRIVACY OR EXPOSE YOUR BODY FOR THEIR PLEASURE!! REGARDLESS OF WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU OR THE THINGS YOU'VE DONE, THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE HIS BEHAVIOR. I COULD C IF YOU GAVE HIM PERMISSION, BUT TO MY KNOWLEDGE, HIS ACTIONS WERE AGAINST SCHOOL POLICY AND IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO, U COULD PRESS CHARGES AGAINST HIM. IF YOU DON'T HE MAY THINK THAT HE CAN DO THE SAME THING TO SOMEONE ELSE. NOT SAYING THAT HE WOULD TRY TO RAPE A GIRL, BUT WHO KNOWS WHAT CROSSES THESE GUYS MINDS THESE DAYS!! JUST GO AHEAD AND NIP THIS IN THE BUD BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.

Answer 9

A slu.t is not someone who dresses like one, that's just a tease. A slu.t its someone who loves sex and does it because she likes it not for conveniences (that would be a whor.e)
I dont think you are a slu.t I think you are a tease and in that case you got what you deserve.

Answer 10

don't be a s.l.u.u.t. Have more respect for yourself. Dress how you are comfy and damn everyone else's opinion. Isn't that what punk is all about?

Answer 11

Sweetie don't put yourself down.You are not a s.l.u.t.Yes,You should report him.You young lady that is your body if you don't want a man touching you let him and the cops know.