me and my friend was close real close, few weeks ago she start ingnoring me. she used to email me every day i havnt got one an weeks.she didnt tell me about her new bf. i still want her as a friend what should i do?!?!?!
2006-08-30 12:00:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let her know you will always be there if she needs you and then be patient, new boyfriends often get undivided attention for a while.
2006-08-30 12:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by pol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like a long time to you, but your friend has a new boyfriend and may be caught up with romance where time knows no bounds. If you have been friends for awhile, eventually she will contact you. When she does, just be happy and do not scold her for waiting so long to contact you. If she does not contact you, then perhaps she is not interested in continuing the relationship. There is nothing that you can do about that. All of your efforts to keep in touch with her will be unwelcome so do not do that. Meanwhile, in the interim, school is starting again. So busy yourself with getting on the honor roll. The grades you get and the knowledge you receive can never be taken from you. Education will help you become a well-adjusted, successful person and everyone will want to be your friend. Do not mope around over your friend. Study, study, study, study, study.
2006-08-30 12:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Shaar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and maybe she will come through on her own. If this fails then the straight forward approach is best, i.e. don't email her, write her any letters or call, go straight up to her in a friendly way and ask her to chat or when would be a good time for u to hook up. Once thats done and its a yes you can take it from there. If its NO, as much as u want her for a friend don't belittle yourself and beg. Move on with your life, cause she was never a friend if she can't talk to u no matter what is goin on in her life. Friends don't hurt one another!
2006-08-30 12:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Shari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space! She may be going thru something right now! You can try to talk to her or contact her, but if she continues to ignore you, allow her time to come around! if she never does, move on! some people come into your life for a season and others for a lifetime. Look at it as her loss. This isn't anything to really stress yourself about because people do weird things these days and maybe what's she's going thru she's not able to talk to u about right now. If she's a true friend she'll come around in due time
2006-08-30 12:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its unfortunate that there are alot of females that once they get a man will only hang out with them,,and leave thier friends hanging. just remember when or of they break up she will be running back to you crying. Then when she does you can explain to her that she hurt you when she left you for her man. men will come and go and friends will always be there.
2006-08-30 12:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reverse psychology. try ignoring her. or confront ur friend and tell her how you feel. or just dont pay attention to her and hang with your other friends, or get a bf and dont tell her. shes obviously not being a good friend.
--Britnii
2006-08-30 12:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel and leave her be. if she feels the same that you do then she will comunicate that with you. if she is a true friend then she will explain to you and just give it time i know that that is not the easist thing to do but it will help
2006-08-30 12:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know her phone #. If you don't just tell her that some chick was talking bout her, and if she asks who say you don't know or say it was the girl that don't like her. Soon she will come back.
2006-08-30 12:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop emailing her for awhile and let her decide what to do, I am sure that she has not forgotten you that quick give her a little time and space.
2006-08-30 12:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her or dump her
2006-08-30 12:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by sheila s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋