I want to SERIOUSLY cry! Help me!?

Question

Now for a few days now I have tried to hint people to ask me about my free homebusiness in my Yahoo Questions see cause I cant get in trouble if they contact me but SO many are telling me that I am a scammer and that my business is a scam! which I KNOW it is NOT I am getting PISSED and UPSET and nearly at the break of tears because I have found a real opportunity I have seen a check! I know that when I took my business training I was told to when marketing remember that there are people who wont believe me! but I have such a soft heart that it hurts.......I know I am probably a wuss and some may say to get a life, but I dont know how to keep my head up in this situation what do I do? Help me be a better salesperson for tomorrow! plz! I know that this is not a Family question but people are more friendly in here than anywhere else!

Answer 1

whats the business?

Answer 2

First, read some of the answers here on Q&A, and you will see the mentality of some of the people youre dealing with. Im not so sure you would want to deal with them. Besides, remember in marketing, youre not selling the product but yourself. If you believe in yourself, first and foremost,then people will believe in you and then your idea. No one said it would ever be easy, especially in todays world but preservearance will pay off. All you can do is put your idea out there in the best light possible and let the people decide for themselves. Now with the way you descfribed yourself above, especially about being a whimp, my dog wouldnt believe in you lone less your idea. You have to remain strong, believe in what you doing and like what youre doing and the rest will follow. Just remember to sell yourself first, and if you can do that youll be able to sell real estate on the moon. If you act like a whimp then you couldnt sell a nuclear weapon to Iraq. If youre scared dont show it. Selling is one place where the strong surely survive. Once you can sell yourself then work on how youre getting your idea across to the public; is it appealing and interesting, with not giving away every detail but enough to get someone interested enough to find out more about it, demographics; am I getting to who I want and is the computer the best place for my idea? Hope this helps

Answer 3

Well - first rule in business really is to have some thick skin - which I don't either - people hurt my feelings at work and I cry and I know I shouldn't but I can't help it. That is just who I am.

Ignore people - people don't understand - people just make nasty comments and are insensitive- not only to you. I have seen them all over this site even to little girls asking them to cheer them up cause people make fun of their diseases etc. People are just cruel.

You know in your heart your intentions and what people say does not matter. You have a strong belief and drive in what you do and that is all that matters - that is what takes you to your goal. All people in business and in fact even in life have to have the strength to face this opposition - to know that what they are doing is worth this struggle. In the end your humanity - your "realness" and soft heart will see you suceed - it will seperate you from the rest. Amd you will prosper because of this - always. So - no matter what people say, stay strong and get the strength to go on from within - you have it with that soft heart - so reach in and find that and don't let people bring you down.

All of these things will make you a good saleperson. Not all salesmen have to be insensitive and pushy - cruel and liars. To me - the best ones are the ones that are honest and real. That you can trust so be proud of these qualities - they will continue to seperate you from the rest - now and always. Be confident in who you are and what your business is and it will sell - you - your realness and heart will make it sell. :o)

Answer 4

ouch!!!an I though MY life was going bad!!!

ok first of all, the internet is not really the best way to tell people about your new business. cause the internet is NOT REAL.I mean yeah sure these are REAL people typing REAL answers,but they dont give a **** about you or anyone else.and its not cause they think you're a scam,it's cause they don't know you nor can they see you.so how do you expect them to sympathize with you?.However,in real life you have much of a better chance to get peoples' attention on your product.All you have to do is look good and figure out what to say to get people interested.and if you don't look that good,find people who do and let them help you out.I know it sounds shallow,but that's how the human brain works!!...good luck!!!

Answer 5

for one thing hy its gay partners steevie and daveyy if you check yahoo!! rul;es you can solicitt or try and run or start a business here with yahoo, its a fre sight like questions and anwsers for advice not personal gain hons iam quite sure, here! this is why your runing into these kinds of people you cant post stuf on hee like that iam suprised that someone from yaho hasent seen this and shut your jets!! downe here hons its the rules!! its no place to start a busineess here hons!! hit the highway!! get a life idiott!! you are beaking the rules!!

Answer 6

oh i feel really sorry for you, i know you are not a scammer and neither is your business i don't know you but i believe in you so just try and not worry about what other people and just believe in yourself okay? and what about your free home business tell me about and always remember believe in yourself!!! I hope this helps.

Answer 7

as long as you know you're not scamming people and you're doing right, keep on with the keeping on. yeah you may have a soft heart but that heart aint gone pay the bills and the words that people say to you aint gone kill you either. its all right. keep up the success brother! Good luck!

Answer 8

my advice would be to get some mint chocolate chip ice cream, and some comfy relaxing clothes and turn the a/c all the way on. then you snuggle up in your favorite blanket, eat ice cream, and watch a few episodes of the fairly oddparents.

it always works when im feeling down.

Answer 9

Grow a set- toughen up a little. Starting a new business isn't easy, it gets easier with time and you'll get the hang of it.

Answer 10

I'd like to hear more about it. I am a stay at home mom, and would love another income coming in. Give me a link or something so that I can check it out.

Answer 11

First of all, Yahoo Answers was not designed to promote businesses. You might ask a question like "how can I promote my _______business? Then describe what kind of business it is.