-To every girl who is looking for true love.
-To every girl who is herself no matter what.
-To every girl who dresses cute, not skanky.
-To every girl who wants to be called beautiful, not hot.
-To every girl who will spend her whole day looking for the perfect birthday present for you.
-To every girl who gets her heart broken because he chose the whore instead.
-To every girl who is nice to everyone no matter whom they are.
-To every girl who would die to have a decent boyfriend.
-To every girl who won’t settle for the jerk.
-To every girl who would like just once to be treated like a princess.
-To every girl who cries at night because of another heartbreak.
-To every girl who won’t get down on her knees and open her mouth just to get a boyfriend.
-To every girl who just wants to holds hands.
-To every girl who kisses him with meaning.
-To every girl who just wishes he cared.
-To every girl who would want a guy to just once give their jacket up when they are cold.
-To every girl who just wants him to call.
- To every girl who wastes her day waiting by the phone.
-To every girl who just wants to cuddle.
-To every girl who just wants to sleep (no sex) with him.
-To every girl who is scared to put her heart out there again because she has been hurt so many times.
-To every girl who shows how much she cares and gets nothing back.
-To every girl who thought maybe this could be the one.
-To every girl who believes in her dreams.
-To every girl who would do anything so she could achieve them.
-To every girl who laughs at stupid stuff and actually thinks it is funny.
-To every girl who is just looking for that one and only, but having a rough time along the way.
-To every girl who has been cheated on because she’s not a skanky whore who gives it up to any guy.
-To every girl who doesn’t want a guy who just plays with her emotions, but actually cares about how she feels.
-To every girl who wants words backed up with actions.
- To every girl who fell for all the lies only to find themselves alone in the end.
-To every girl who gave her heart away only to have it shoved back in her face.
I was searching for you.
Don’t be shy,just give me a sign,and i will be there .
THIS ONE IS FOR YOU.
2006-08-30 11:53:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I personally found that to be quite a beautiful piece and question...
Nice girls do not always finish last, just as good guys do not always finish last. Unfortunately they are just harder to find in the mix within today's society. I can fully understand what you are trying to get across in this question and I appreciate a lot of what is said in this list.
I myself was a virgin until the age of 19, and this alone was enough to cause critisism within my group of friends and that of others who did not even KNOW me. But in the end I was glad it happened when it happened as it made me appreciate the fact that sex does not rule a relationship, it is the small things that make it. Such as a lot of the things listed above. I myself have not found myself one of these 'good girls' yet but I am always looking.
You must remember though that this description of a good girl is now what men are always looking for and this may be one of the reasons why they finish lower than that of the other girls. It is a matter of personal taste in a relationship and the one you just mentioned is really one of beautiful romanticism. Personally I am all for a relationship of this type and will welcome it with open arms once I find it.
My best wishes for you on your journey of happiness. Until then remember to love and be loved in return. 'Your good boy' will come, and only then will you both get to appreciate what beauty you both have.
PoIsOn MuNkEy
2006-08-30 12:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by no munkey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit)to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
2006-09-05 02:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Angel
You sound like a girl that any real man would like to have in his life, I answered a question several months ago that asked ( why can't men be honest ) it is because they have 2 small brains and they have no clue as to what true love is.. and when you just happen to find him most girls panic because they think he wants some thing else..
I answered this girls question like this --
you ( he) has come home, he's tiered, Hungry and he's wet because it's been raining and he finds a small kitten on his door step, what would you do???
If he can show so much remorse for that small life who has no one to turn to but him then that man is a man and he's worth hanging on to..
try asking the boys in your life that question, if they give you the what for, then get rid of them, more so looks aren't that important, look for the one with the heart, because he'll give the right answer, he take it in, love it and feed it, if he has a real heart...
oh - I asked my wife that same question twice before she got the right answer, so it's not just men..
good luck Hun and I wish I had a daughter like you, it would have been fun teaching you just who to look for and why it's so important - sugar-n-spice and every thing that's nice, that's what little girls are made of, that's what you sound like your made of, my first wife refused to answer that question and my new wife took 2 tries to get it right before I would marry her..
Please hold on sweet heart, he's out their some where, your still young and you have more going for you then you give your self credit for, it's your heart and that's the best tool to finding a man to fall in love with tool that a girl can have and believe me, when he finds her and she knows who and what she is made of inside, the guy will kill to be with you, or die trying. he'll do dumb things, say any thing to be with you and make up reasons just to call you or to be with you.
Roger
2006-09-05 19:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by roger s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, nice girls finish last but they also become wiser along the way. At 51, this nice girl has realized that sexy and hot are just passing fares, that beauty goes away while self respect and achievements stay on with you long after beauty is gone.
That being in love means loving your own children first and last and always, and yourself too. That a man is your complement and not your owner, and finally that nice men, do exist.
2006-09-06 17:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Pi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your whole life is wrapped around sex and romance you will finish last, maybe look for that nice, quiet, shy, not so great looking guy instead of Mr. Perfect. Be a better more interesting person yourself.
2006-08-30 11:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really long, but I felt like I was reading my bio hahaha amen that was beautiful!! Thats what I need someone who gets it- that we are not all skanky little girls. Some of us are elegant intelligent women. Even if I am only 23!!
2006-09-07 01:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is refreshing to read what you wrote, be patient and you will find that very special someone. If you are looking for your life partner, you have built a wonderful foundation for beatiful partnership. Love the person for who they are first, and all else in a relationship will be even more wonderful.
Thank you for that.
2006-09-07 01:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by yakity_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most nice girls and guys finish last because we always seem to fall for that asshole or skank.These types of people often appear like the right choice but can only hold their act for so long.Eventually showing there true selves messing it up for the rest of the people we find.
2006-08-30 12:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Validate yourself don't think you need a man to do it for you because you don't. A woman can stomp with the big dogs while being a lady in her own right.
2006-09-04 08:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that was the most thought out observation I have ever read
many peoplle fit that discription including me
I belive that every journey every "nice girl" has to travel and though it may seem like you finish last you will find your tresure
2006-09-05 10:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by elizabeth c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋