Ok me and this 1 girl named Jennifer got inot like a fight over her boyfriend. I ONLY saw him as a friend and he did to. I tried telling her but she wouldnt listen to me. So like now her n her friend Adriana HATE me with the passion. They have been telling people dat they really want to get me (as in throw it down wit me..in other words they want to kick my a**) Well the only problem is that i cant fight for ****, well maybe a little but compared to them i cant, i can also kind of punch really hard. I was talking to my friend nancy and she told me that if i get into boxing wit her it will help me more. So wat should i do with them?? Should i get in that fite or should i just wait until i can learn how to fight??
2006-08-30 11:46:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off... the Pen is mightier then the sword, learn to spell... your not cool with those ridiculous slag words like "dat and fite"...
Secondly, just stand your ground. If I was a girl, I'd make sure my hair was tied up for awhile unitl this thing blows over.
Regardless of the out come, fighting is only going to prove one thing... someone is still going to "hate you". Don't worry about them. If they approuch you though, don't run, don't stand around with your hands in your pockets, and don't yell back and forth. Stand your ground. When you finally have took all you can take, defend yourself. Make sure the fight is even. If its two against one, wait another day... prolong it as long as you can unless you have friends that are going to have your back, most teenagers don't have "true friends" like that.
Good luck
2006-08-30 11:55:52 · answer #1 · answered by sgtgregg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, Despite what people say, sometimes fighting is necessary. But, this does not sound like one of them.
#2, Even if you win, you still don't win. Who's to say that they won't still hate you and try to fight you again, or get a group to jump you.
#3, It never hurts to learn how to defend yourself. Boxing however, is for fighting, there is a difference. So unless you plan on defending yourself by punching them out before they do it to you, I would learn something else.
#4, If you do learn something else, make sure you research it and make sure it's worth learning.
some good self-defense arts Aikido (but very boring to the average person and takes too long to get good enough at it),
Judo (same things, but not near as boring), Tae Kwon Do (could be good, but there are alot of bad schools out there that don't teach you anything real), Karate (simple, and easier to learn but not as good as other arts)
#5, There's always the option of just walking away. People say it makes you look like a coward, but I've never really cared what most people say or think, because when people get in groups they are retarded and not worth the time.
2006-08-30 11:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by CR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um i think you should play beast mode so that will scare them at least a little, just make sure if you are in school make sure the teachers don't hear you or see you. And if they try to fight you to the point where they swing on you and tap you, spit on them to make a scene and then push her on the ground or on a wall, locker or something to make her fall then run and tell a teacher before they catch you and say u were defending yourself.
2006-08-30 11:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn`t fight. I would stay as far away from them as possible. I`m not talking about cowardice. They are very silly, let them tell others whatever they want. Besides, you don`t learn how to fight overnight and in the meantime they might get you. So, stay away. Good luck!
2006-08-30 11:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by lucrecia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are all talk, they say they are going to beat you up, but i bet they cant even throw a punch, learn a little self-defense and if they mess with you, just kick their a**. but they can also get a bigger group to jump you so amke sure you have some people that have your back.
2006-08-30 12:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by braceface232132 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to fight while avoiding one. pay attention to the fact that alot of people talk extreme amounts of trash without throwing a punch.
2006-08-30 11:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be afraid of anyone. Wait until they come approach you to fight and when they do pick up something and knock they *** out. I bet they won't **** wit you any more.
2006-08-30 11:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok female i understand human beings basically like this one. if she says something approximately being cool cuz shes older say properly i might say "have been all cooler than you cuz you failed 2 grades i guess you could no longer even spell cool" and basically diss her until she stops and whilst shes at school and if she says something recommend to you assert "properly hows that weed workin for ya" attempt to in front of a instructor lol.. desire i helped.
2016-09-30 04:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u want to fight and get expelled from school? just ignore that immature girl and move on with your life.
2006-08-30 12:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't fight until you have to- until they make the first punch. asap, ask your older sibling or parent to teach you how to fight. if you lose the fight, then email me their names and their adresses, and i will beat them up for you. i can't stand bullies!!!
2006-08-30 12:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋