I use to let my boyfriend have women as friends until he cheated on me with one of his friends. Now he thinks its unfair of me not to let him conversate to them. All the women do is tell him about they problems and he tell them about our problems. I don't think its fair because these different women know so much about me and I know little or nothing about them. I asked him why do he need to talk to women for conversation he always says its nothing its just friendship. I honestly think its the attention he gets from them. I have been asking him several months to please stop talking to other women and he never listens. He apologizes and does it again calling them at one and two in the morning when I'm sleep. I feel he is disrespecting me and telling our personal business.What should I do? I want to leave him behind this.
2006-08-30 11:44:22 · 12 answers · asked by Unknown_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know where you are, I was cheated on for three month at the enf of a long relationship. But don't let that expirence make you bitter. I don't think it's the other females are the problem, but if your bf is getting emotional tied to them and bonding with them and not with you, that another problem.
Let him know that it's ok to have friends that are females, but not to get too emotional tied up with them. Ever heard Dr. Phil's thoughts on emotional cheating??
If he can't draw the line between freindship/other intrests, dump him now.
2006-08-30 12:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by jhs80123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This does sound fishy. From my adventure in a 5yr relationship with new lady telephone numbers, it has 80 5% of the time led to a gentle difficulty the position he's infact seeing those females. i changed into interior of a similar boat that you're in pretty a lot 4 months in the past, albeit devoid of the toddler. that's continually troublesome to entice close once you may and can't have self assurance your guy. Has he given you any reason now to not have self assurance him because chatting with different females does not advise that something is going on. enable him recognize that it bothers you, if he cares he will handle your situation and assure you that there is not something to difficulty about. If he can't sit down with you and communicate the problem in man or woman as a mature grownup, then it ought to he time to prepare for this toddler on your own. that's a really puzzling step to take at first, i recognize, yet once you're taking it each thing seems so a lot more beneficial accessible.
2016-11-23 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep him from talking on the phone to women - thats just ridiculous. You do have the right to ask him not to speak with females he had sex/relationships with. But, there is no reason he shouldn't be able to talk to friends who are girls. The fact he cheated on your with a friend was wrong, but if you can't trust him or forgive him, then you might as well move on.
2006-08-30 11:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know deep down that you can't trust him, for he is not "trustworthy". You can't control what he does either. If you have to remind him like you have been, you might as well forget about this relationship, because he is not going to change for you! He may make you promises that he won't keep, or lie to you and try to cover up his trail. He is a cheater who won't change his ways, and doesn't care that he is disrespecting you. Time for you to move on and leave this "drama" behind, or else you are going to continue to be miserable, unhappy, suspicious, and controlling.
2006-08-30 12:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong because he has given you a reason to feel this way and the fact that he wont stop says something as well. if he was truly sorry for the first time he would be more than willing to make you feel more comfortable this time around. confront him if hes not willing to stop or compromise and hes not worth it or the pain leave him and find somebody better.
2006-08-30 11:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by LILMAMA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should not be conversating with other women over the phone. If he doesnt want that from you then he doesnt appriciate you. Tell him to smarten up or you'll move on. You deserve respect, and if he needs female companionship, he should talk to his woman. Simple as that
Good luck hun
2006-08-30 11:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Savannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better do that, leave him because he is disrespectful and obviously, not concern of your feelings but himself. We all deserve great things and happy relationships. His friends are just like him, no sense of respect.
Be strong to get out of that relationship. It won't do good to you and I hope you do it ASAP before things get uglier. You can do it.
2006-08-30 12:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump him. you obviously dont trust him and there can be no relationship without trust. move on.
2006-08-30 11:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by richard457 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, your not wrong You go girl.
2006-08-30 11:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by joey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too controlling and jealous. I would have dumped you already.
2006-08-30 11:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋