I think what we vow each other in our commitments ceremonies are very romantic, but not realistic.
2006-08-30 11:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by tabularasa73 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hummm a realistic vow......
I vow to continue breathing until such time as I can no longer do so. While breathing I vow to consider you side of an argument long enough to formulate my answer, to only take the last slice of pizza when the in-laws are over, and to never leave the toilet seat up when my mom is over.
So help me God!
2006-08-30 11:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by bobb1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i make a solemn vow of the most realistic nature that I had a sandwich for lunch today. nothing can ever change that.
The problem with the whole wedding vow thing is that people don't mean what they say. they only intend to stay with the other person until the romance fades a little bit. if people who intend to keep their vows make them, they will keep them. personally, i make no vows. i say what i think, then do what i say. my yes means yes, my no means no, and nobody can ever call me a liar.
2006-08-30 18:47:59 · answer #2 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going into a relationship with a balanced, mature life then no it isn't unrealistic. If your not happy with yourself and stuck on the fairytale spouse then your going to have problems. Cinderella doesn't exist in real life, neither does Prince Charming. People get married when there are serious problems in the relationship already of course their going to end up divorced. You have to work on a marriage its not all peaches and cream. When however you are referring to any kind of abuse in a relationship, then of course that's a totally different story! I do like bobb1's answer though
2006-08-30 18:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Angy FFRTFC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will love you to the best of my abilities. Accept me and respect me as an individual, human being & I will do the same for you.
2006-08-30 20:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To honor and cherish, and love and be faithful to one another for as long as we live or for the rest of our lives.
2006-08-30 18:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is realist.
they should say.
i will try to not cheat or lie, i will pick up my underwear and help with the dishes if you promise to not gain 100 pounds and give me sex when i want
2006-08-30 18:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by staci m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOBB1 Great answer
2006-08-30 19:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by judih1957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple and sweet love not relistic i think poorer
2006-08-30 18:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋