My husband thinks he should get it several times a day. I love him and the sex is usually great, but sometimes I'm just not into it. If I'm too tired, is there something wrong with me? When we're both done, he rolls off of me, cleans himself up & lights his cigarette, then twenty minutes later comes up behind me in the kitchen or wherever and wants to go again. The problem is, he gets upset when I don't want to go again. Says he feels cheated. He got mad at me cause we had sex saturday night and then his daughter came home from her grandma's house before we had a chance to have sunday-afternoon sex. He actually told me he was mad at me about it. His exact words were: "I pushed you away because I was angry at the loss of any possible alone time for more sex. I felt VERY resentful towards you. I also felt that way last night when you fell asleep." We usually have sex 3-4 times a week. Is there something wrong with me? What can I do to keep up with him?
2006-08-30 11:02:11 · 7 answers · asked by Andrea Ryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you! Sounds like he's unreasonable and obsessive in his focus on sex. I don't know how to overcome it, it's very difficult if not impossible to overcome an obsession. I mean, I love chocholate, but I'm not gonna get upset if I don't eat any for a day or two, I mean c'mon!
I really don't have any advice here; how did you feel about his obsession when you first got married? Did you think it was going to go away in time? Were you prepared to "give it up" on demand? Perhaps you just have to be the more tolerant of the two, and accept and forgive him. I can't even imagine being attracted to someone who constantly had sex on their mind, it would drive me away in 3 days. Good luck!
2006-08-30 11:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. My husband does get mad at me sometimes too, but dang sometimes I just don't feel like it. It's not like we don't ever do it, but once or twice a week is enough for me. I wish I knew what to do or say too. It's not that I don't want to, but sometimes I have a lot on my mind or the kids are around or I just plain don't feel like it. Good luck...tell him it's nothing to get mad over.
2006-08-30 18:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by toobusy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have sex at least twice a day. See your OBGYN about your sex drive. Something may be wrong. I had a low sex drive and fixed it, it was due to a health problem. Not I keep a vibrator in the car, 'cause I am horny all the time.
2006-08-30 18:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with you...he wants it way too much....I think it's a warning sign that he would rather have sex (again!) than see his daughter
2006-08-30 18:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by schoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I have him? Kidding aside. Everyone's sex drive is different and throughout your marriage it could turn and you want it more than him. Just try to please him as much as you possibly can. Yea, it's tough when your not on the same page, but actually, no one is at the same time unless you just met.....
2006-08-30 18:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it to him 4 times a week ,, anit'n nothin wrong with u ,, ur just not as freaky *** he is
2006-08-30 18:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the laundry everyday!!
2006-08-30 18:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋