There is a boy at my highschool that seems to hit on me all the time. He even make sexual commits to me. Do you think he is trying to sit me up to let him know i'm gay
2006-08-30 10:58:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the boy plays sports and he lift weights, so do you think he really likes me or just trying to set me up to admit i am gay
2006-08-30 11:02:49 · update #1
Wait what? Your question doesn't make any sense...are you a guy? Are you gay? Are you thinking that you're being targeted for being gay? Not understanding your question. You're not even using the correct words here...commits? Trying to sit me up...what?
2006-08-30 11:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by yogurtsoju 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shlt dat wud b a bummer if ya missed out on this if ya are gay. . . .[??}If not and he is being a real b@sterd b-carefuf just get good friends with him and b messin round with him like callin him gay, flirt a bit with him 2 but not obvious just enough so that if he is gay he'll feel that u are too and tell ya((right now hes doing this exact thing,flirtin being good mates just u do it aswell)) If he says yes then act all serious, ask him again if he says yes 'again'. then now flirt with him some more till ur pretty sure. Then make a move. . . . . . . But not till ur sure keep ur back covered ask around if people no if he's gay, not if he has a g/f, if hes gay?? If more people tink so aswell then ur in and ur on ur own from here, Good Luck!!!
2006-08-30 19:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Ripsrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he's doing it. If he tells you he has the hots for you, tell him thank you but not my style, though you can still be friends if he wants. If you do have the hots for him, and he is gay then you can get together later. If he's just setting you up, you'll be covered. If he's gay, you're offering to still be his friend will let him know you are OK with it.
FYI - I wouldn't use your email in your nickname. You could be inviting unwanted attention/harrassment.
2006-08-30 18:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know.. He could be setting you up so you need to be careful... Your Young... Then again if he is just trying to see if you are so he can jump your bones... hmm that would be a bummer if you missed out on this.... If he is that cruel that would be sad... Just continue watching him and ask people around if he has a girlfriend or not.... Find out what his deal is..... Start joking around with him back... Just be like dude are you gay and need someone to talk to??? You ask him..... Just be careful... Not to put anything in writing that you are gay.... No Text, nothing....
2006-08-30 18:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to play the note game you'd better know how or learn hoe to fight. Because it can really get you into a lot of s***.
So just be careful and stay true to yourself.
Remember he's just a boy, but so are you.
2006-08-30 18:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by dofonz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's hott then just have fun and tell him and chill with him and whatnot. And if he IS setting you up to confess... You're gay. Be proud hun!
2006-09-02 23:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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from your description he sounds g0y not gay.
2006-08-30 18:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, they're not commits, they're comments. And it's "set me up," not "sit me up." Wait...are you a guy or a girl? If you're a girl, then just ignore him if you really believe that he's trying to set you up, otherwise just try to be nice to him...
If you're a guy, then that's just freaky...
2006-08-30 18:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe he is. We dont know. However maybe its better to talk to him about all this. Tell him to stop it if its bothering you. Just tell him the truth
2006-08-30 18:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋