I get people all the time...but I guess I'm shy and I don't try...I think sometimes I will never get the exact person I'm looking for.....the outside doesn't matter....but I would still like the outside to be what I like...you know....idk.....I guess I just get in this fix....what if I never find any1 like that.....I'm still kind about it....but the guys that like me aren't the guys I like...and I know that sounds terrible...I just wanna know if any1 else feels like this....I'm not very outgoing when it comes to guys.....
2006-08-30 10:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by :] 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
OMG i know exactly what your talking about. Dude we are young and im sure the right guy will come along sooner or later but in the mean time just try to have fun. Play around with guys and go out on dates. Whats there to lose? Take a chance. And try to be out going. Just be confident in yourself and you will become more and more outgoing. Talk to them and set up dates. Dating is the only way you can tell if you can see yourself going out with this person.
2006-08-30 10:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by pinklemonaid911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know, when I met my husband of more than 25 years now, I did not like him at all.
I kept running into him all over town and he would ask for my # and I would give him someone else's.
Then one Saturday afternoon I was out shooting pool and I ran into him once again. We played pool for a while and then parted ways. We became good friends over the next couple of years and eventually started dating.
We ran off and got married one Friday afternoon and have never looked back. No he wasn't what I was looking for but he was exactly what I needed.
So don't give up on someone too soon or you may never end up with a wonderful guy like I did.
2006-08-30 18:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told by a pastor never marry someone you are not attracted to.
Don't wait for the right person to come into your life be the right person God wants you to be.
Enjoy this time you have, dating has its own frustration and disadvantages.
Remember choose only a date that would make a good mate.
When you find the right guy you will know it, pray about this situation you want to marry for life don't settle just to be with someone, respect yourself, you don't owe a guy a thing, let the guy know that you are a lady not a pushover.
Concentrate on being friends with guys don't obsess about being an item with someone that will come in time. God did not intend a person to have 50 boyfriends in a life time it only takes one man to be married take your time and don't rush
2006-08-30 18:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hold out for the guy who has what you want "on the inside" in the important things, just not necessarily in detail. You deserve to have someone who's temperament is compatible with yours, for example, if you get angry easily, you need a calm person. You need someone who agrees with you on values that are important to you, and who shares at least some of your interests, but you don't need to be an exact match, that's impossible. Physical attraction is important too, but it's good to have an open mind about who you might be attracted to.
2006-08-30 18:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I love is not at all what I was looking for. To be honest he doesn't have any of the qualities that I was looking for (except for a select few important ones). But I find that he is everything that I've ever needed, and I discovered some new things that I didn't know that I wanted but now have in him.
Give things a chance.
2006-08-30 17:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by §чﺀﺀчβчﻯ†a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one in the world is perfect, but perfection is in the eye of the beholder. In other words, it's based upon your definition of perfect. It's also hard to find a person with a good inside and outside, an inside you like, but also an outside that you like. Just follow your heart, and I'm sure that someday you'll find the right guy.
2006-08-30 18:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I heard Danny Bonnaduce say was "The woman I'd do anything for, doesn't exist." Which I think is kind of true. You're only thinking of the good sides of people, not the baggage that comes along with them.
2006-08-30 18:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to this question is simple: You will get the exact person you're looking for when you are the exact person you want to be.
2006-08-30 18:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by jeffe55106 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I have dated 10 guys in my past 7 years and I am 17. So just go for it and u will maybe land a boy.
2006-08-30 17:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so glad that I didn't get the person I was looking at as a potential spouse..... he was definitely too messed up financially and emotionally.
2006-08-30 17:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋