My boyfriend and I are living together, the location we are in is good for me I have a good job and I'm going to college (2 Blocks from home!)we were both raised here so it is home. It isn't the best place for him though he can't find a job here and can't afford to go to college at the momment he has opportunities in other places but this may mean I will loose everything going for me now. What should we do ? (it has already been 2 years & I feel like I'm holding him back help!
2006-08-30 10:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Nanakuyae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry to say, but thats something you and him need to decide. good luck
2006-08-30 10:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are the one you have to look out for! I know from experience that giving everything up isn't a good thing. I'm not saying it will go bad for you, but stop and think long and hard before you give up what you have going for you.
2006-08-30 17:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by Faith B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's definitely not a good thing that you feel like you're holding him back. however, it seems like you guys are young. and it wouldn't be right for him to ask you to leave everything. maybe he can commute to where he has better opportunities? of not, maybe he can move somewhere closer to where those opportunities are and you guys can just live separately. that doesn't mean you're breaking up, it just means you'll have to commute to each other.
2006-08-30 17:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweeternity2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are probably really young and have a lot yet to do in life. Do what's best for you and let him do what's best for him; then if you both end up together after that--it was meant to be!
2006-08-30 17:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go do what he has to and you do the same
2006-08-30 17:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋