Have this friend who have been friends with for many years. Also have this other friend who is like a sister. There is this other friend who doesnt like both of them. What should be done about the friend who doesnt like the other two. Don't want to loose the other two because they were there when they needed to be . Any advice? Please help.
2006-08-30 10:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by IloveDr.Will K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Two of them like each other. The other one hates them because that person says they start trouble for them.
2006-08-30 10:56:13 · update #1
Well you should keep your friends the were there when they needed to be. And the friend that doenst like your other two friends well thats to bad for that friend she doesnt have to like them. If shes your friend then she would understand that the other two are your friends aswell. All you have to do is stay friends with your old friends shell just have to deal with it. Just because someone doesnt like another doesnt mean you have to change who your friends are. Thats just dumb!
2006-08-30 10:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has the one that doesn't like the first two done for you? like does that person have any meaning in your life? you can think about that..also, you could try talking to that one person, one on one, not around anybody else, and try asking that person, why do they hate your other friends...you don't have to stop being friends with any of them, but you should just get everything straight. your friends don't HAVE to like each other, but they shoudn't hate each other...just try your best to keep them close to you, not close to each other...but always remember that they all have one thing in common: they all care and love you, that is why they are YOUR friends..
i hope i helped
~littlepinksis~
2006-08-30 17:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by littlepinksis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make the one who doesnt like the other two like them in some way
2006-08-30 17:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 best friends who all dislike eachother but they all know that if they cant be "cool" with eachother, than they can not be friends with me. My advice to you is to tell each one that they need to accept the fact that you have other friends in addition to them and you like them each equally. Try and get them all to hang out with you at one time. MAKE them get to know eachother. If they are truelly your friends, they will be willing to do it....for you!
2006-08-30 17:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Alanna R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it better to have 2 friends you know and other friend don't like your two friend then dump that person.... that not a true friend....
here my questions if you got married and later your husband don't like your two friends. and told you that I don't want you to be their friends anymore. what would you do???? Me I told my wife is that I know my best friend for long time before I met you smiling..... I don't tell you not to see your friends and we agree ...
2006-08-30 17:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee think about that for a sec, get rid of the one that seems to have a hate on fro everyone else
2006-08-30 17:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem ..... you can't b friends to both....you'll end up givin more attention to one than the other...... you should folllow your heart { i tell everyone to do that}
2006-08-30 17:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell the one how you feel and if she don't like it she can hit the road .
2006-08-30 17:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by bearangelcindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do as you like.
2006-08-30 17:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM, UGH...
2006-08-30 17:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋