What do i do??

Question

Ok I have this teacher but shes more like a friend nad i told her about how i feel at home and she was really concerned so she talked to the school counselor. The conselor want to know what i want to happen and she said shes will ing to get me out of my house i wanan go but i cant tell her that i wanna go to my teacher/friends house. waht do i do, heres the story:

Ok My mom adn dad scream at me all the time. They tell me im worthless and that they dont care about me. I feel unloved and unwanted there, and my counselor told me that amazingly this isnt teenage stuff what i explained was worse. She said she wanted to help me, and that se would talk to my parents but I think that that would make it worse, she also asked where id wanan go if she could get me outta the house,i cant tell her i wanan go o my teachers house,i thought that would be to weird but i dont get along with any other family member, My couslelor said it was emotional abuse that i was going through, what do i do????

Answer 1

If you truly feel abused, then you should probably talk to the counselor and your parents. I think you need some help really, because your parents sound like a tough crowd. Maybe a family counselor? Go visit one to see if you can fix anything. If things really don't get any better, maybe you should go live with someone else.

Answer 2

I can't tell you what to do. I can tell you that nearly every teenager has felt this way at one time or another. Apparently they haven't hit you, so that's a good thing. And, since there are two sides to every story, I'd have to hear your parent's side to make a rational decision. But as far as living with your teacher - I know of several instances where a teenager moved in with a teacher. But it would have to be with the parent's consent. If your parents said 'No way' then you'd have to stay home, unless you ran away. Then it would be turned over to a child protection agency. I don't really think you want to go there. I think you should let the counselor talk to your parents. That might jolt them enough to reconsider how they are treating you.

Answer 3

You counselor is right! Ask your treacher first how she would feel about that and see what she says. Don't be offended if she isn't up for it. But it would probably be a good idea if you figure out where you would want to go and make sure those people would be willing to take you in before you suggest them to your counselor.
Also need to make sure with your counselor that something like that is REALLY possible and that you wouldn't end up in child protective services with a foster parent or something.

Answer 4

If your parents ever hurt you, or if you feel safer when youre not at home, you could always call 911 as a last resort. If you dont want to do that, try talking to your parents. If you dont want to be taken away from your parents, find a number other than 911 for the police station, and talk with an officer. They will help. I am SO sorry, and if you want to contact me, my email is [e-mail]. For further help, visit http://www.childhelpusa.org/

Answer 5

Oh honey you can tell the counselor you want to go to the teachers house. I am sure she will understand. She might not be able to make it work though. Do you have any other relatives you could live with? Any friends whose parents might be willing to take you in?
I am so sorry your parents are doing this to you. You are a wonderful person. Don't ever forget that.

Answer 6

listen that most be hard i dont have a life like that i mean one of your close friends and they might help you call a uncle or aunt or grandma call 911 trust me and tell them whats happening
and i bet they might go to court but just were are you living now
are you still living with your parents i think you should do the right thing sorry you have a rough life i wish i could help you in some way but pray at night to god tell him whats happening and you now you did the right thing if they kick you out the hose than go to either gom to your niebors house or a friends house good luck

Answer 7

Im sorry but I honestly don't know how to help you but maybe you could try telling your counselor you want to live with her and maybe see if you could do it just for a week to see how it goes. And if it doesn't she can find you a new home. Hope you feel better and find a stable home!


And if you ever need anyone to talk to im always here.

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Answer 8

You've been really brave so far. Now you just need to say what you want. It does not mean you will get it, but it may lead to another answer. Your family could get counciling, that may help. Best of luck to you, sorry you are going through all this, just remember though, you ARE WORTHY, YOU ARE SOMEONE, AND THINGS WILL GET BETTER, maybe not as fast as you would like, but they will get better! Bless you and your family.

Answer 9

I have the same problem get out whereever with whoever as fast as you can things will only get worse over time explain to the counciler your realationship with the teacher they might understand.

Answer 10

You have opened up a huge can of worms. Granted, if what you've written is true then it is a form of emotional abuse. On the other hand, they're your parents- for good or for bad, they're the ones who had you, raised you, and feed you.

Don't be suprised if a divorce or other bad things happen over this- that is, its not your fault ok? But I suspect theres other problems in the background you don't know about and you may have "lit the fuze that set off the bomb that resulted in the divorce"

Its gonna be rough,,,,so just hang tight,,,,everything ends given time