HELP!!! i am 13 but 7 years of my life as a DEPRESSED child to depressed teen... i am getting worse.. especially no guy ever liked me or something like that.???... my family is all mess up... i am running away but I FRONTING the trith every NOW AND THEN!!!!
help!!!!!!!!!!!!
depression is controling my happiness and everything!
2006-08-30 10:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by rockist_angel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, I was the same way, and the only thing that helps me is hope. I just had to hope that some day I would get away from my family, someday I can find a good guy to love me, someday life will get better. all you have to do is have hope, and a course of action. I decided that Im going to work hard in highschool and go to medical school and I will have lots of money as an adult, I can find a good man when I get older, and I can move away from my family. good luck... and if you want to talk, send me a message cuz Im only a year older than you are.
2006-08-30 11:22:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to see a counsellor or at least your doctor. I know that it's no fun being depressed and there is no easy cure, you just have to start thinking more positively and surround your self with positive upbeat people. I know that it's tricky at your age, being 13 isn't the greatest age on earth, but eventually you will get through it, and come out the other side feeling stronger and able to help others in a similar postion to that which you find yourself in now.
Find some good friends that you can talk to, and as hard as it is, lighten up and try not to let feeling so depressed rule your life. Be positive and think happy thoughts...sounds corny, but it works.
2006-08-30 17:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon here,,,,sit down, make yourself comfy.
First, have you talked to the school counselor? Start there ok?
Second, have you followed the advice of the school counselor? As in "See the Doctor"?
Third- being a teenager is depressing. It simply IS- and theres not a whole lot you can do about it except LEARN whats important. What is important? Chose good, solid wise friends. Plan what kind of work you want to do once you leave school. What college do you want to go to?
Polish your language, social and math skills- you'll need them for the rest of your life so learn them well.
Good Luck
2006-08-30 17:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I have bipolar disorder. I've had a harder life than most 90 year old people. I just take deep breaths and try to get through. Don't run away. You need support and special help. I got a therapist and she helped me through my fears. Now, I'm better than I was and I'm working hard on getting a better life.
2006-08-30 19:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well i was depressed for about 5 months last oct. - to around march. I had my mom pass away & i had to move in with my dad (who i didnt like that much) & move to a new town. So trust me i kno depression. But i think that you should talk to someone about depression dont let it ruin your teenage years. Im not going to lie you are going to have times were you are going to be depressed but 7 yrs. you should go talk to someone & if its a condition maybe get anti deperssiants.
2006-08-30 17:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by 7-7-07♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay ,you do really need to talk to an adult that you trust. Running away from your problems @ home will not solve anything ,it will only create bigger problems. Don't trust stranger on the net either. But me I am a safe person ,those who r parents r considered reasonably safe. Trust your instinct.
When talking to people you don't really know.
Keep praying & telling yourself that things will be get better.
2006-08-30 18:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by angelluvswolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth im feeling the same way, im just learning to forget family and live off friends and even if im not happy act that way so i dont get more attention then i wanted, if you get a good answer lewt me no.
2006-08-30 17:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL RIGHT! There is nothing special about being thirteen. It's just an age.
Go ahead and be miserable like the rest of us! Is that what you wanted to hear?
2006-08-30 17:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your mom and dad to get you some help, do not run away or u can always e-mail me
Mark
Mrklcoac2002@yahoo.com
2006-08-30 18:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no how u feel although i feel sad i put on a smile becuzz ur bad vibe will spread so just hold on *smile*
2006-08-30 19:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by chriskim93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋