Insurance money came in and my bro said there was only 5,000 and he said he used it for funeral expenses. He made a big mistake he left a pile of checks totalling 35,000.00 to pay for stuff for his own personal use and gave my brother 10,000.00. How can i find out how much really came in? He has everything, my moms, house, car, all the way down 2 the lawnmower. He is a greedy bastard and i know my mom wouldnt have wanted this.
2006-08-30 09:57:13 · 10 answers · asked by thesunnshynne 5 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
that's one big mistake you should contract a attorney
2006-08-30 10:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by aznflippgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is enough money to interest an attorney, you can petition the probate court to demand an accounting of the estate. This sort of thing happens all the time.
As far as her signing away the house, likewise, an attorney can make a claim of undue influence, and if you win, have the transfer voided.
IF there is no will, then it is likely in your state everything be divided between all her kids. The life insurance, however, goes to whoever the beneficiary was, tough for you.
There is a question no one has asked. WHO TOOK CARE OF HER IN HER OLD AGE???
Sure sounds like he did. If so while you sat on your lazy butt, then maybe, just maybe, he really deserved all that. This also happens all the time; all but one kid go their merry way, too busy to help with her,then get mad as h**l when she leaves everything to that one who took care of her.
I sure would do it that way.
The fact he was there to take possession and you weren't, is the clue this may have happened.
My brother took care of our parents in their old age, and he got the entire farm. Fortunately, we were not greedy jerks, and we agreed it was totally fair. There was a small division of personal effects and furniture but that was all. It was just.
2006-08-30 18:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is contact an attorney. If you let him know what you are going to do, then he might try and hide/get rid of more evidence. Some attorney should have an original or copy of the will - and it should be worked out with him. Legally, the will has to be followed as your Mother stated.
I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. Good luck with everything.
2006-08-30 17:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by NickRing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mother. I'm sure that having this problem with your brother just makes things that much worse. You will have to consult an attorney who specializes in probate matters. Your brother may have simply taken possession of those things (other than the house) thinking that you and your other brother wouldn't say anything.
2006-08-30 17:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by karen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss,
If your mom had a will have a lawyer look at it and if there were things listed for you then your in titled to them, If there were things like money for you and your brother didn't leave you anything check your state or have attorney see if you can sue your brother for stealing your inheritance. We have that law in WI.
Good luck, can't stand thieves especially if its your own family it definitely hurts more.
2006-08-30 17:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by witch_wicked_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have been here before. This happened a long time ago, now he brags about his house,his money and tells people he
helped make payments on the house...the rest of us remember,we are not stupid. Maybe you should see an attorney.
2006-08-30 17:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mother did not have a will get you a lawyer, also of you have your mothers personal info social security number address, maiden name a little detective work could yield info as well. If
2006-08-30 17:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mr K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does not matter. If you were not listed as a beneficiary you are not entitled to a portion of the proceeds.
You should first find out if you are listed as a beneficiary.
2006-08-30 17:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by Khandee K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek a lawyer...soon!
You maybe able to file a law suit....for a child's percentage.
Did your mother have a will?
Did she leave everything in his name? ( house, car, insurance money?)
2006-08-30 17:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by swampfox conservative 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put out a hit on him, and take everything from him.
2006-08-30 17:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by mthtchr05 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋