guys won't go out with me because i have a really small butt. I feel so selfcontious now.
2006-08-30 09:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
I know how you feel. I have the flattest butt in the world, and about the guys, I would say to ignore them. Do you really want to go out with a guy that only likes you for your a**. I sure wouldn't. I know that everyone says this but eventually you will find a guy that likes the real you, small butt included. If you wanted a larger butt they do make underwear with a built in butt that makes it appear that your butt is larger and rounder, but I wouldn't do that if I were you, you want a guy to naturally like you. Hope that I could help!
2006-08-30 10:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the real deal is that it is instinctual. A larger butt means that the woman has enough fat to be able to conceive and sustain the fetus while larger hips indicate the ability to safely pass the child through the uterus. It all comes down to the instinct to pass on the genes to the next generation. That being said, men are very simple creatures. The size of your butt is not the only feature that you have to offer. If we continue with the instinctual thread, lusturous hair and clear eyes indicate health and longevity. A good posture and muscle tone indicate strength. Etc etc. But basically, make the man feel good about himself and he'll want to spend time with you no matter what size your tush is. Good luck!
2006-08-30 10:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys only care about that stuff because they think with their penises. Don't worry about it so much. You'll have a guy come along one day that appreciates your small butt and everything else you have to offer. I have no boobs, but my boyfriend still says I'm the hottest woman he's ever seen and he gets all worked up when I wear something naughty. Even though I do feel insecure about it sometimes I know he still loves me and it doesn't matter so much. Your small butt is probably attractive to more guys then you think. Someday you'll snag the guy who won't ever want to let go of that booty.
2006-08-30 10:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by sexy lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are that way. All guys though do have one particular body part the seem to admire the most. Some are breast men, some butt men, and some leg men. Some men like a woman who is lean, some like them muscular, and some like a woman who is plus sized. As you get older you will run into all sorts. The old saying there is someone for everyone is true.
2006-08-30 09:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by jane d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure all guys won't go out with you? As long as you are cool and aren't possessive I'd go out with you.
I know so many girls like you who care so much about their bodies that you forget about having hobbies that actually make you interesting. I always want to have a girl that does other things in her spare time that I would actually enjoy doing. At the end of the day I could talk with her about what I did, and about what she did and create a connection above and beyond sex.
We'd still have crazy animal sex, but there would be more.
2006-08-30 10:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We guy's don't actually know the anwser to the question ourselves. However some guys focus on other thing's besides a butt, like hips or breasts.
There are even guy's who are more interested in weird things like feet then butt's... so no matter how small your butt is, there is probably a guy out there attracted to some other trait that you've got.
Buck up, and to quote The Producers "If you've got it, Flaunt it!"
2006-08-30 09:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by klilly84 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple. . . more cushion for the pushin'!! it´s not your fault you were born with a long back. if the cornbread and grits aren't working for you, then to hell with it. if someone doesn't want u because u are not blessed in the butt department, then they will never know your true worth and they do not deserve to even blink in your direction. if u are feeling self conscious, it started way before u discovered men wont go out with u because of your butt. do some soul searching and find out what u are really self conscious about.
2006-08-30 10:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by eyezlied2u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys care about all parts of a woman's body, but they all care in different ways, and many don't actually care that much
there are many many many guys that will go out with you especially BECAUSE you have a small butt and many more that won't make that big a deal about one piece of the whole package that is you
don't worry about it
if somebody is big butt obsessed, why would you want to date them anyway
relax
enjoy
there are plenty of guys who like just what you are
2006-08-30 09:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by enginerd 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think because some guys have small asses and they need a woman that has a big *** so they can get a good grip but you shouldn't feel in secure about your butt i have to say i have a small butt to and my man loves it but there is one thing i have to say don't let it get to you keep your head up maybe someone out there will like you for your assets.
2006-08-30 10:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Maria T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy won't go out with you 'cause your butt is to small, laugh in his face and walk away. He's so not worth your time.
2006-08-30 10:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by horselover1416 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋