heres the story.my friend was saying rude things about me and my bff so we told her we was not her friends and she has to leave us alone. well the next day she wrote me a note saying how sorry she was and that she swore on her life that she would never say bad stuff about us again. so i decided to forgive her. but my bff dosent and shes already a little mad at me. but my b-day party is this sunday and i invited my friend and my bff and a few other people. but im afraid if my friend i got in a fight comes then my bff wont come and i want both of them there. help me
2006-08-30 09:45:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont worry about it, it will all work out.
2006-08-30 09:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your BFF that you don't have to be friends with the people I'm friends with. But say it in the most nicest way you can. If you found out that you invited a lie (your former friend) to the party and she did something wrong, then you learn dont you? Sorry if I'm sounding mean but I'm really not!
2006-08-30 17:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you already invited the bad girl so there isn't much you can do. You tell you BFF that if the other girl says anything about you guys then it is over for sure. Ask her to be nice to the bad girl just on your b-day. Good luck
2006-08-30 16:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by simpleplan0013 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bff that you want to give this girl a second chance. Tell your bff that you would really appreciate her being nice since it's your special day and your really want it to be a fun time for EVERYONE.
YOU need to get it in your head that your friends don't always have to like one another for you to be friends with them. You choose your friends, not your bff or your sister or your mom. It's your choice and what you do with that choice is up to you.
OH and Happy Early B-day!
2006-08-30 16:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the friend who was saying rude things that although you forgive her, your bff doesn't, and if she wants to come to your birthday party she needs to make amends with the bff.
2006-08-30 16:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she really a friend if she doesnt accept yours? She doesnt have to like them. But accept the fact that yall are friends. She doesnt just because you are. You should tell her all that and just say not to be rude. If she really is your BFF, she will understand.
yOUR bff should understand that it is your life and ou can be friends with whoever you want to be friends with. She cant tell you who you can and cant be friends with.
2006-08-30 16:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kim p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the friend you got in to a fight with should go apologize again
2006-08-30 16:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥SWEETIE1016♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it easy everything on that day as it is your birth day. enjoy. i wish you a happy birth day.
2006-08-30 16:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋