My freinds have all had boyfreinds and say that I should have one too but I'm not shore if I want to what do I do?
2006-08-30 09:42:56 · 26 answers · asked by K B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't have a boyfriend just to say you have a boyfriend....won't be fair to you or the guy
2006-08-30 09:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone think they have to do what everyone else is doing? If you arent ready to have a guy in your life then you arent ready. Why push something on yourself that really isnt going to work if you force it? Go against peer pressure and prove the government wrong that peer pressure doesnt cause the majority of stupid people to do stupid things. Use your own brain and heart and do what you feel is right. If not then you are going to be feeling lousy in the end anyways.
2006-08-30 16:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi KB, be true to yourself above all else. I am not sure why your friends want you to have a boyfriend so much, but they are not the ones living your life for you or the ones who must deal with your heart. I commend you for asking this question and for realizing that what you think and feel is important enough to ask for help.
If having a boyfriend is not that important to you at this time in your life, then don't have one just to please your friends. It sounds like you know yourself pretty well and are content with yourself for now...that is great. People spend their whole lives trying to find that in someone else instead of themselves. Please don't give in to peer pressure..you might end up in a relationship with someone that is not good for you. Just tell your friends that you appreciate their advice and concern, for whatever their reasons, but you are happy with yourself and don't want a boyfriend right now. Good luck and stay content with yourself.
2006-08-30 16:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule that says someone should have a boyfried or a girlfriend. The average lifespan is probably close to 80+ years. You have "ALL" of your life. Don't rush things. Enjoy life, enjoy being young and don't be so quick to do grownup things.
Your friends are very close minded to be saying such things to you. You're okay!
2006-08-30 16:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want you you don't have to. Having a boyfriend is a responsibility. There is the possibility to hurt someone and to be hurt. If you don't want a boyfriend you probably aren't ready for one. When you are ready it will just happen for you. Don't ever let yourself get pressured into doing ANYTHING you don't feel you want to do. As for your friends telling you to do so, I'd tell them you're happy the way you are but thank them for their input.
2006-08-30 16:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by walkingdisastr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "sure" not "shore" and don't be in such a rush. You will eventually have a boyfriend. Life is NOT all about having a boyfriend. You will have many before you finally get married. Let your friends have their boyfriends and relax. You will have one in time.
2006-08-30 16:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pessure sucks! Tell your friends to back off and when the right guy comes along, you'll be with him. Don't ever cave in to what your friends say. It's better to wait to have boyfriends then to date everyone in the world and be known as easy.
2006-08-30 16:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you happy. All my friends have boyfriends, so I've found new friends who don't to go hang out with until Mr. Right comes along. Just be true to yourself
2006-08-30 16:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by kruzinlilred 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youdo what you are comfortable with doing. Never give in the pressure. If you are not ready for a boyfriend then thats fine.
2006-08-30 16:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give into being pressured into dating someone just to date them. If you do...the next thing they will pressuring you into is having sex with him (and you don't even want to be with him in the first place).
Be choosey about who you date and it's up to you to find that person...not your friends.
2006-08-30 16:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your friends dictate your life. you should do what your heart tell you. if you're not ready for a boyfriend. don't have one, just concentrate on school. having a relationship will star you away from your success in school. follow your heart is usually the right instinct. you yourself dictate your future.
2006-08-30 16:48:48 · answer #11 · answered by samdrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋