What is the word for mentioning something at the same time as saying you won't mention it?

Question

For instance:
"I have no intention of bringing up Mr. Smith's drunk driving charge."
or:
"I'm not going to mention names, Anne."

If someone said one of those quotes, how would you refer to it? Someone suggested the word "subterfuge" but I think there is a more appropriate word.

For instance, I would think duplicity would be a closer description of this than sarcasm, but I still don't think that's the best word.

Sarcasm is a form of caustic wit intended to wound or ridicule another - so that doesn't apply.

Answer 1

Apophasis (also called praeteritio or occupatio)

This website has a lovely collection of rhetorical devices to guide you through your travels.

Answer 2

I don't know if there's a single name--but there should be.

"Irony" might describe it, since irony "implies a subtler form of mockery in which an intended meaning is conveyed obliquely". (Got that from Yahoo's thesaurus). Irony, though, is a pretty broad thing, and not unique to what you're describing.

On second thought, maybe "sarcasm" is pretty close, too, like the above answerer said. But I honestly don't know. Sorry. Maybe you can come up with a name that'll be generally accepted someday.

Answer 3

Sarcasm, when you intentionally say something intending to be unintentional.

cutting language: remarks that mean the opposite of what they seem to say and are intended to mock or deride

Answer 4

Yeah like "mum's the word"?

Answer 5

sarcasm

Answer 6

MUM? not really sure what your question is asking.

Answer 7

To "unmention" something.

Answer 8

disingenuous

Answer 9

lying

Answer 10

I dunno but I don't repeat gossip so listen carefully. :0)