would you leave or stay? would you have to get even and do the same
2006-08-30 09:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by recmcmdc 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No.
Although I stayed celibate in marriage for better than 20 years because of it; I waited until the last of by children left home. And then I ended it.
I was 46 before I once again felt what it was like to lay with a woman.
Damn near killed the poor little thing :oP
So no. I won't ever forgive disloyalty. I don't do disloyalty. I don't put up with disloyalty.
2006-08-30 09:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave in a heartbeat. It would be INSANELY painful to leave but, once you've done something like that, it shows that you don't have respect for me or my feelings. Why would I want to stay in a relationship like that?. Plus if he does that and you stay, he's going to feel like he can do it all the time and nothing will happen. That's how women get on Jerry Springer. LOL
2006-08-30 16:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did cheat that is why he is my ex.
No really I did try to forgive and to move on but sometimes you just can't find the trust. No I didn't get even I would never stoop to his level and hurt my children that way, or for that matter even him.
2006-08-30 16:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would punish him severly but I think I would probably stay, I cant say it has never happened to me before. I know I love him and everyonis in entitled to one mistake as long as he used protection I might be able to forgive.
2006-08-30 16:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not forgive. Once someone cheats the trust is gone.
2006-08-30 16:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Marygoroun(d) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i left,well made him leave :) lol but it depends on how long you have been together,how old you are.it was quite easy for me,we were just teens and had only been going out for a while,and everything was still a bit unsure.depends on both people realy -x-
2006-08-30 16:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by kez_124 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on lots of things.
how serious our relationship was.
how much he had cheated.
and if i knew the other girl o_o
but probably leave. unless he could really prove he was going to be with me only.
2006-08-30 16:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by lauren, duh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-08-30 16:43:28 · answer #8 · answered by usa_grl15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on the circumstances.
2006-08-30 16:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are two things that are unforgivable~beating and cheating!
2006-08-30 16:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by ckmoster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋