Theres this guy i see at work who like to follow me around and is always asking me out..... I'm running out on excuses and have tried telling him i'm not interested in dating right now!!! I dont want to be mean....but hes becoming very annoying lately !!!!
2006-08-30 09:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by sweetangel1328 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no more excuses just tell him that you only want to be friends
2006-08-30 09:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tyler :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, guys can take a no for a no, and live with that just fine.
Women are not magical pricesses who cause men to fall off of the earth or commit suicide over a single rejected date.
Excuses, to a guy, mean "not tonight, I have something else going on, but check back with me later".
If you don't want to date the guy, in the future just say "No Thank You!"
Don't beat around the bush, cause you think you're going to hurt their feelings! That's rude and hurtful.
Tell the guy, that is now annoying you, that you're very flattered, but you're just not interested in dating him. Thank you for asking, but, no.
If he continues, you can proceed to tell him no thank you again, and add that you'd prefer it if he just stopped asking.
One more approach, tell him that you're going to have to talk to his supervisor if he dares to ask you again.
Then remember, in the future, just say "no thank you". No excuses, just those three words. Simple as pie!
Good luck.
P.S. Leave the just wanna be friends spiel out of your speeches.
2006-08-30 16:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have to tell him that u r not ready to make any relation until now and try to avoid talking to him or being with him in the same place and ask elder member of ur family
if this guy is serious so he can marry u and don't have long duration dating him
2006-08-30 16:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by loli pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you're seeing someone even if you have to lie and pretend to have some guy pick you up from work even if it's just a friend or brother etc. It worked for me!!!
2006-08-30 16:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you do not mean to be mean, BUT, you aren't attracted to him. He'll get offended and treat you rudely. Make note of this and if it affects your work, report this to his supervisor and your supervisor so that a resolution can be established.
2006-08-30 16:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this guy No means NO and if he asks you one more time you will report him and if he persists then do report him ,
also do not soft peddle with him be firm and strong, mean what you say and say what you mean. go girl
2006-08-30 16:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's making you uncomfortable, tell him "thank you for the compliment, but I am not interested, and you are starting to make me uncomfortable."
2006-08-30 16:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by villemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This borders on sexual harassment. You should mention it to your supervisor before it gets out of hand.
2006-08-30 16:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a chastity belt and make sure he see's you wearing it.
2006-08-30 16:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by HatesMondays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give up
2006-08-30 16:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by answer seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋