I dont know how to move when i am on top during sex? He asked for me to get on top and try it and whatever feels good to me but i feel like he doesnt like it. he doesnt guide me the way he wants me to move so what should i do?
2006-08-30 09:14:36 · 10 answers · asked by meandhim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's ok girly, I was in the same boat as u, but with more experience I got it down packed!
Ok, woman when their on top usually prefer to rock back and forth(standard riding), (all in the hips, and butt), which men enjoy, they can watch ur hip movements, ur breast moving, Great!, then theres hopping up and down, Men prefer this more because u "hit" all the right spots so to speak. Hopping is basically getting on top but u plant ur feet firmly and hop up and down, men love it!!Trust me!!b There are also other advice moves such as hopping modified with the mans legs and feet in the air wrapped around u, or reverse riding( reverse cowgirl, where he can watch ur butt), etc., etc., etc
check out(with no one around) : www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com
2006-08-30 09:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're straddled on top, put both hands on his hips, and lift yourself up off him...
When you're in the lifted position, start riding him in the forward/backward motion (so you're actually only half way up the length of his shaft, and the head of his penis almost comes out as you move with the rhythm...
This is a winner, and he will love it!!!!
2006-08-31 09:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by SierraSydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much, being on top is the woman's chance to please herself. grinding against him is more pleasure for women in this position but for men, it would be better if you put you kind of did a squat over him and did more of an up and down motion. my husband really loves it when i turn with my back to him and squat over him like that. it really turns him on. anyway, just give some different things a try.
2006-08-30 16:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that being on top makes you uncomfortable and ask for a little guidance. (Do this when you're not having sex.) Tell him you'd like to try new things - like being on top, but that you're afraid you're doing it wrong. Most likely, if he doesn't like it when you're on top it's b/c he can tell you're uncomfortable.
2006-08-30 16:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something feels good to you, do it! Forget his feeling - sort of - and just move for what feels good to you. He will love it!
2006-08-30 16:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you are riding a bull and don't fall off.
2006-08-30 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if you are doing it right!!
2006-08-30 16:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try riding a horse first. yeehaaaa!!
2006-08-30 16:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kind of glid with ur bottom
2006-08-30 16:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRACTICE MAKE PERFECT
2006-08-30 16:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋