how do i buy a dildo without my mom knowing and i dont wanna go with friends, and dont wanna buy it of the internet.
i know a place were they sell them but dont know how to go and buy without my mom knowing.
please help
2006-08-30 08:53:56 · 68 answers · asked by chickchick 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if your worried about your mom knowing then maybe your to young to HAVE a dildo-
2006-08-30 08:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by shannon 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Oh those teenage years, at least that is what it sounds like to me. I know i as open with my girls and sex, even took them to the doc to put them on birth control, i still remembered those raging hormone years. But as far as the dildo is concerned that is not an open subject between a young lady and mother. So , if you are sexually curious which is normal try something else, you will not be able to buy a sex toy until you are 18, if you have your own savings account with a debit card you can do it online or thru a catalog, which you can find on the net. If this is not an option and you really must, try something soft around the house, go to a pet store and get a latex chew bone, try a candle, don't use anything organic, it could cause an infection. Enjoy exploring your sexuality.
2006-09-06 15:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bballchick,
No suprise there, as a girl's first dildo is important yet can be embarrassing.
A good buddy of mine was so protective of his little sister that he actually went out and bought for her a dildo.
My suggestions are these:
1) A Barbie doll; often when some girls would like to have a dildo but have no means of aquiring one for their own, they opt to buy a Barbie doll, which arrises no suspicions and looks harmless when forgotten on your night table.
2) Try to go buy it alone. If you can get to that store you're looking at without your mother's knowledge, then go for it! Try to get there alone and do it as simply and naturally as you can. Make sure you wash it before using it.
3) If your mom "has to" tag along, tell her you want to go buy birthday (or whatever) presents and you don't want her to see or know or suspect what they are. Hopefully this should work at getting her suspicions about any possibility of you buying a dildo out the window.
4) If you have trustworthy friends, you could ask a friend to buy it for you. Make sure that when your friend comes back to deliver it to you that it is well hidden/camouflaged with other stuff so that a nosey mother won't suspect too much.
5) Have me buy it for you; I am in the porn buisness and so I am often in sex shops in Montreal hunting down various stuff and it would be my pleasure to buy for you a dildo of your hoice and mail it off to you. But your mom may intercept the package and all that work would be for naught!
Hope this has helped you a bit!
2006-08-30 09:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you live in a big city it will be easy for you to find a place; I would imagine adult toy stores are not that easy to find in smaller towns. You can always do a local yahoo search for "adult toy". If you have a local "alternative" paper (a freebie with listings of events and such) you could look through that for an ad of a place nearby. Since you are young and female, you should stick to places that identify as woman friendly -- not likely that they will have pervy guys working there. And your local drugstore has a variety of "back" massagers that may be useful. Even those Lililan Vernon-esque catalogs have some very intertestingly shaped "neck" massagers. Be creative and don't be embrassed!
Explore your body, enjoy your sexuality. Pay cash and throw out the receipts and box before you get home!
2006-08-30 09:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by SpreadTheWord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a website that will help i had the same issue years ago when i was a minor. the website it adameve.com. what they will do is send you a catalog for all of there products ( videos, dvd, dildos,etc) and it will be sent in an anonymous, non suspicious envelope. you can send money order for whatever you want. it will get sent to you in anonymous packaging so thereore you could tell your mom a friend sent it. the company nameis no whereon the packaging and no return address on the outside either. so check out the site . i really liked it and made some interesting purchaes as well. good luck!
2006-09-06 20:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you drive then u can buy one on ur own but im guessing you dont so all i can think of is this october say u want to go to this langerie shop to look for a maid costume or something or say u want to get some really cute pjs there and when u go just be like "ill run and get it mom" then buy some cheap pjs and the dildo!
OR SNEAK out tHE car after she goes to bed (those places usually stay open Late)
2006-08-30 08:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to walmart and get a back massager. Tell your mom you have a backache. Then there will be no questions asked. They do not go inside you but outside stimulation is great if not better than a dildo.
2006-09-06 08:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by jonikaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but since you are worried about your mother knowing about your purchases I'm going to assume you are under 18. If this is the case then I really don't know what to tell you. You have to be over the age of 18 to even go into most (if not all) stores that sell adult toys.
If you are over 18 though, just go to an adult store and buy one. How would your mother know? And even if she did, why would you care?
2006-08-30 08:58:31 · answer #8 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, a dildo is better than having sex and getting a disease or a baby!! Git r done, girl!! If you can't do it yourself, how can you expect to know if someone else is doing it right for you? LOL! If you are under 18, you can't go to a porn store, but you could have a friend get it for you. Or, hey, ask your mom!
2006-09-07 06:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by bokie318 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it's only fair to tell you that most sex shops have an age limit as to who can come in their door so if you are underage it won't work for you to go there by yourself. If you're of age, just go buy one- it isn't a huge deal lots of women have them. If you're not of age, but have a way of getting the funds to do so, try ordering one online through the Pleasure Bunny- the charge and box are discreet so nobody will know what you bought.
2006-08-30 08:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are other things you can use to masturbate with other than a dildo. I have used several things such as a hair brush handle, a banana, a cucumber, a tampoon. BUt if you want a dildo, go to a sex shop and get one, if they ask for your ID just tell them you dont have one with you. If they dont ask, you home free.
2006-08-30 09:00:06 · answer #11 · answered by Samantha B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋