sum one plz help me my mom is gonna kill me
2006-08-30 08:29:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have nothing nice to say to you so all I'm gonna say is, you will just have to tell her, "Mom, I'm pregnant" and then you'll have to get a job.
2006-08-30 08:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Whatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is a grown up thing at least that's what my mother told me about The birds and the bees. If you were an adult to go out and have sex, you should be able to tell your mom that you are pregnant. My mother told me that If I decided to have sex use a condom and the great news about that is it prevents Diseases and pregnancy if used right. Maybe you should have to her your plans and asked to get on birth control. But then again a lot of kids think having unprotected sex is cool. I guess you don't now unless you wanted to have a baby. I'm not trying to put you down but it's society today and it's the truth. You can talk to a counselor because what you tell them is confidential. They can help you a lot. My opinion is if you mistake the word dat for the word that you shouldn't have a baby stay in school before you become a mother. Oh and I heard that becoming a mother at a young age is hard so make a good decision. Get help.
I'm 23 years old married with no children...
2006-08-30 08:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Precious1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, she will be angry at first, but remember that is her grandchild living inside you. The best thing is just to tell her.
Call 1 800 848 5683 - this is a national pregnancy hot line. They can hook you up with a Pregnancy Resource Center near you. The Center will have counselors, and many resources, like information about staying in school, doctor referrals etc. All they do is free and confidential. They can help you with your mom too. Please call (they do not offer abortions so don't worry)
Mom is mad but it will go away when she starts getting ready for the baby to come - this usually changes everything.
2006-08-30 08:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you feel like you're in physical danger (your mom will hit you), you should tell her asap. The anxiety of waiting to tell her is far worse than dealing with the issue after. You might have heard the phrase "times change, but people don't". Your mom will likely remember what it was like when she and her friends were 15, so try to listen and benefit from her experience and advice. If you just can't tell your mom, find a teacher or other adult (over 25) who you can confide in. Good luck sweetie!
2006-08-30 08:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I'm sorry to hear your pregnant. I know you know what caused it, so it can't be that big of a surprise right? I really feel you need to set down with her and just tell her, I know that is not as easily done as it sounds. I will tell you now that your mom will be angry and she has the right to be, but she will not stop loving you. She will help you through this the way she See's fit. Don't try and do anything stupid by yourself, as a mother I can say I'd rather be the one to help you through this than someone who doesn't love you like only a mother can
Good luck and God bless
2006-08-30 08:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by momie_2bee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Honey I want to say if anyone comment is negative pass it over.. Another thing you have to take in consideration of how your mom feels.I.E. disappointment, anger etc. The best way to tell is with someone you trust there and have like a family meeting and give it to her straight. Your mom probably already knows bbecause she is a woman you know.. honesty is the best route to becoming an early adult because you're almost there being pregnant.. I know you're scared but you have to brace the storm and move on if not for you but for your baby. PS I was a teenage mother and I told my mother I was pregnant she kicked me out and didn't talk to me but after wards she respected my decision to be honest and everything golden.
2006-09-03 04:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by heathermom0927 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a teenage mom I know what you are going through. Take a day or two to come up with a plan of action. Are you going to keep the baby? If so how? money school daycare. Are you going to have an abortion? (Please dont) Are you going to give the baby up for adoption? Call your local crisis pregnancy center, they can help you answer all of those questions. Sit down with you mother and be calm. No matter how she reacts try to stay as calm as possible. Having answers to all of the questions will help her handle it, and help you as well
2006-08-30 08:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by sexyheater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I had to answer you since we share birthdays, I just turned 30 and I was in you exact same shoes as you when I was 15 it was the hardest thing I had to do, my mom dogged me out and called me every thing but my name, in the end she made me get rid of the baby, I resented the decision she made for a long time, but now at 30 I know I wasn't ready for mother hood then. I thought she would hate me forever but she is my best friend in the whole world now.
2006-08-30 08:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ASAP....as upset as they are going to be they will always love you...Take it from the social butterfly who had everything going for her her senior when I got pregnant by my 2 year b.f. who was a sophomore...Yup, he was 15 (not even driving) when we got pregnant. You really need to tell her soon because you need to start taking care of your body correctly so it can do what it needs to for your baby. I realize that this is not an easy thing to do having to do it myself at just 17, but the sooner you do it the sooner it will be over with and everyone can move on...They will still love you and eventually love that baby when he/she comes...
2006-08-30 08:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by jasonerika_conley2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your mom will be mad. But, I bet she loves you a lot. And a mother's love doesn't stop when her children disappoint her. So the best thing to do is go ahead and tell her. Don't try to hide anything from her it will only make the hurt worse.
2006-08-30 08:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by jlmt1114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her flat out. She's going to be upset for awhile, you are so young. But she is your mom and she can't be angry forever. You need to tell her because you are going to need her support through this pregnancy and after the baby comes. Try not to be too defensive, remember that this is going to hurt and scare her too. She loves you and you love her, that will get you through this tough time.
2006-08-30 08:36:02 · answer #11 · answered by S. O. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋