i am new married and my husband doesn't give me full care..he has other interests that keep him always busy.. like his family and friends.
2006-08-30 08:20:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetie, it ain't all about you. Don't be so self-centered.
2006-08-30 08:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm a newly wed too, I've only gotten married for almost 3 months. The only way for your husband to give you more care is that you have to give him your full attention and respect him, he'll do the same. It's always give and take. so put as much time and love into the marriage, and he'll do the same thing.
2006-08-30 08:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you need to deserve it. Make sure that you eat right and exercise. Pay close attention to grooming. Go to a beauty collage (inexpensive) get your hair styled, tinted maybe, eyebrows done a manicure and pedicure. When your partners sees you as being attractive to others ... he might get on track. Is English a second language ...? You come across like you are 11. You should do more reading.
2006-08-30 08:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate your needs to him. You also have to be understanding. Sometimes it is hard to adjust to being married. It takes time. You don't just wake up the day after your wedding and know how to be a good wife or a good husband.
2006-08-30 08:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my sister~I dont know if you are christian but the Bible says that "a man sahll leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife, and they will be one spirit." So you come before family and friends. I encourage you to share that with your husband. He is also called to nourish and cherish you,and love you as his own body, as Christ loves the Church. So full care is a requirement. Seek God's Word together about this. If you build your marriage on Christ, all things are possible. Be encouraged...
God bless you and keep you...
2006-08-30 08:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you TOLD him how you feel? He isn't going to know if you don't tell him. You can get more and more upset, but in the end he isn't going to know what's making you mad if he doesn't know he's doing anything wrong.
Be thoughtful of his needs as well--you both need to remain independent somewhat. Sit down and have an adult conversation with him--don't accuse, use "I" messages, and be honest.
2006-08-30 08:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and talk with him. Better yet. While he is at work, plan and execute a nice dinner (his fave) complete with candles and the full dining experience, then talk to him. OR ask him what his fave thing to do is, then take him to do it. Then he will see how much fun you can have together.
2006-08-30 08:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by robyn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal thing and you are not going to change him
Even married men (and women!) have other interests than their partner.
If you didn't understand that, you should have got yourself a cat or dog instead!
2006-08-30 08:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have found people will treat you however you accept being treated for the most part. May I ask why you married someone like that? You must make him understand he makes you feel bad wiht the way he treats you.
2006-08-30 08:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The universe does not revolve around you. He has other people in his life besides you. Everyone does. Find something to occupy yourself. Like YOUR family and friends, and GET OVER IT!!
2006-08-30 08:28:01 · answer #10 · answered by Shadow 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't make your partner think or care more about you but, you can tell him what is going on and how you feel.
2006-08-30 08:23:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋