i never reach orgasm with him...is it his penis?
2006-08-30 08:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by waverunner 500 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
More foreplay may be necessary to help you become more aroused which will then greatly increase your chances for an orgasm. Here is a couple of things you can try -
First, you should have a glass (one glass only) of wine! Just enough to take the edge off of your day and help you to relax a bit. Part of the issue could be that you don't expect to have an orgasm so that thought is already in your head.
Next, tell him you want to act out a few things. If you can't tell him directly, send him a naughty e-mail with your thoughts. Tell him that you want him to very gently touch your clitoral area with his moistened fingers or tongue if your really feeling wild. Have him do this for several minutes while you lay there with your eyes closed! Tell him to touch you all over and continue to come back to your clitoral area. Keep your eyes closed as this will heighten the feeling for you. Make it a game! It can be great fun for both of you. Your laying there, eyes closed with your husband running his hands all over you! When he does insert his penis, push your pelvis up against him so that you are also being stimulated clitorally too! I would bet that if you can do all of this and relax, you will really enjoy yourself and have that orgasm or two!
Good luck
2006-08-30 11:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While having sex he needs to play with your clit. It is amazing. Another thing is to try having him give you oral sex and finger you at the same time. I have noticed that I get much better orgasms as long as there is some kind of clitoral stimulation.
2006-08-30 15:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by jacemo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a health care professional together about this.
2006-08-30 16:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe it is his thing, unless it is very small. More foreplay is needed. he needs to play with your body more, experiment a little.
2006-08-31 00:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by tm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some toys or ask for aonther firend to help you out .
2006-08-30 19:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey N 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hands.touch.talk dirty.try things you've never done before.be romatic.don't rush things. hey it worked for me!
2006-08-30 22:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Meow4Moe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try changing positions. You be on top!!!!
2006-08-30 15:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him and tell him what you want.
2006-08-30 15:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by honeyluv_2010 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like communication...get in touch with me.
2006-08-30 15:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋