So me and this guy have been friends since the beginning of time. So he gets this new girlfriend and me being the person that I am I dont like her from jump, but he starts to get real serious with her. He takes her to meet his parents, grandparents and now shes starting to hang out with our normal crew. We all went out yesterday and we were just acting the way we always do and suddenly she says she feels like the outsider and decides to call up one of her friends. She tells her friend we're being mean to her and we don't like her and stuff. We dont like her but you would have never been able to tell. So she starts whinning and asking him why he wont stand next to her and act like there together. Just so you know we're playin POOL. Me and him where on a team together and we kept winning so everyone was taking turns playing us, and shes like "When are you going to play with me?" Give me a break. She's jealous of relationship. Someone please advice me cause im 'bout ready to kill.
2006-08-30 08:13:29 · 7 answers · asked by shuanta86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, a guy and a girl can just be friends. I have a "best" guy friend and we've been friends since about 9yrs old and we're both 25 now. We've never fooled around or anything like that, we're just best buds, kinda like a brother/sister type relationship. It is possible for a guy and a girl to have a great friendship without anything sexual involved.
Most people don't understand that, all of his girlfriends were VERY jealous of me and always thought something was going on. Even his fiance was jealous of me until she finally realize we really were just like siblings. Many of my bf's were also jealous - but we just set them straight.
2006-08-30 08:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i guy and girl can be best buds but there are consequences behind it if later on down the line he decides to get married to some girl and she thinks yall are around each other to much she is going to break it off between you to and alot of the time the guy does what his wife wants the only way it would work in that situation is if you cut some of the time you spend together if you do spend alot of time. when it comes to stuff like this i try to think of the long run.
2006-08-30 08:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by ca_rissa3505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I look at it like this.....girls and guys can be friends and any female that's that insecure and needy doesn't need a man...she needs a prayer.I suggest that u not worry about her,because after awhile he'll either get fed up with her and leave her,or she'll find someone else that's willing to put up with her whining and then she'll leave him alone.Either way it goes,she's temporary and u don't have to much longer to deal with her.
2006-08-30 08:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by DA_ONE_AND_ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We dont like her but you would have never been able to tell." Apparently she could tell. If you don't like her then don't socialize with her but be aware that it sounds like your male friend is getting serious. If you want him in your life in any meaningful way you are going to have to find a way to get along with the new girl.
2006-08-30 08:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she jealous she think theirs some thing else between you to like girl friend and boy friend. If she does not understand then he needs to get rid of his girl friend.
2006-08-30 08:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whe's jealous of the realationship that you and your friend has,so of course she's going to become really needy,then he'll get tired or annoyed by her,and dump her
2006-08-30 08:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure they can, i have plenty of female friends. Mom, sister, 8 aunties, all we do is talk and eat and have a plutonic time.
2006-08-30 08:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Soul Pole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋