ok, I had this friend. We were best friends for two years, and now I decided to not be friends w/ her becuz she was becoming too needy and a snob. But now she keeps on bothering me, emailing mi family, and acting like nothing is wrong to them. She comes online last night and tells me I missed out on a great friend, when she's not even a good one at all. She's has become too slutty, needy, and nasty for me. She has too much of an attitude and keeps bugging me and mi family. What do I do to make this selfish person stop?
2006-08-30 08:11:42 · 31 answers · asked by sweetthang93 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would just say....if you were a good friend..why would you be harrassing me this way?...and leave it at that. As long as she can get to you, she will continue. As soon as you find a good way to ignore her, she'll get tired of it and move on. You're family has to ignore her too for it to work.
2006-08-30 08:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you both were bad friends. You should have told her that you disagreed with the changes she was going through and the choices that she was making. Maybe your influence could have helped her become a better person. So, just up and dropping her without trying to help was a bad call and she does have a right to be mad and tell you that you're missing out. Now, on the other hand, if you want her to leave you alone than you need to tell her that you do not like the person she's become and its time to let go. Tell her you were glad of the friendship that you've shared but you need to move on and so does she.
2006-08-30 08:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are hard to find and as you progress in life you will come to realize this. If I were you, I would talk to my friend and ask her why she changed so much and how that makes you feel because she has a right to know and perhaps that may be the reason why she continues to bother you. Try to talk and work things out because life is always changing as well as the people involved in your life and disowning is not the proper answer especially amongst best friends! Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-30 08:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok next time she emails you or calls come right and tell her. I don't think of us as friends. Your the type of friend I dont need. I dont like your morals and I really to tell you the truth I wish you would stop bothering me and just go away. I hate to be this way but, its how I feel.
2006-08-30 08:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slutty, Needy and Nasty hmmm
2006-08-30 08:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block her from your email and tell your family to do the same. Don't take her phone calls and don't respond back to her. Eventually she will get the hint.
BTW - That is why I don't have any friends that are girls...They're CRAZY! =)
2006-08-30 08:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to have a friend like that just be up front with her tell her what you really think of her tell your family whats going on so they can stop talking to her and maybe even change ur email adresses if necessary!
2006-08-30 08:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by lovelyprincessstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her and tell your family to too and find someone new to hang out with and if she act like that then she missed out on a good friend
2006-08-30 08:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by nmehra18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a friend like that. just end it. dont reply to her. stop talk to her (well you dont have to totally stop. just not so much). and tell her how you really feel about even if it is mean. tell her shes getting slutty. its her need to know if shes nasty. dont take pitty on her. just tell her to stop email your family and stop being annoying.
2006-08-30 08:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by christina m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are okay with 'losing a good friend' And that you can deal with it. Tell her if she is so good it wont be hard for her to get a new friend. And block her email.
2006-08-30 08:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Airzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋