When we were first dating, I aggreed to stop chatting ( with anyone ) because it made her uncomfortable that I was flirting too much. Because I would not say that I aggreed I was in the wrong, now whenever I'm online and having "contact" with actual people ( like Answers ) , she gets upset and says things like "I see you found new friends" sarcasticly.
2006-08-30 08:08:51 · 44 answers · asked by roamin70 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Roamin, it sounds like you spend more time on Yahoo Answers, and chatrooms than you do with her. Make time each day to give love to her, shower her with praise, and make her feel that she is important to you. Then, when she is having some "alone time," you utilize that time to do Answers and chatting. She comes first before anyone else. I too enjoy answers, and my husband enjoys some weird game called "Hordes of the Underdark," but we spend time on the computers, after we spend time with each other. Hope this helps.
2006-08-30 08:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends if she is worth all the explanation. If it's just an affair waiting to end for more reasons than this it will just depends which one of you severes the cord first.
HOWEVER, having said that what were you doind flirting overtly when you already have a girl.....polishing your skills for the next chance meeting? Well if it's really important to move the burden of your chest and stop hearing sarcastic comments... this is what you should say, only if you really mean it. "I agree I was wrong earlier by not admitting my mistake but I see what its done to you and our relationship, it was incorrect off me to chat in any way that made you uncomfortable, however I am not cheating on you. I like using the net and would like to do it without you being sarcastic" Thats it. That should do it.
2006-08-30 08:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by stranger's wife 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i'd choose to declare the two you & your spouse besides as your married existence are so youthful for this to be happening, sadder that there are 2 little ones interior the blend. there isn't a time or a reason to condone "cheating!" once you're nevertheless waiting to get alongside , there must be a gamble to rebuild what you have someway misplaced in this relationship, you will by no ability understand although if in case you do no longer a minimum of attempt to talk with one yet another and specially else be trouble-free approximately what you the two are feeling. If no longer for the different, for the sake of the infants you have have been given to offer it your terrific shot on doing what you may to extra advantageous the relationship, in spite of everything tries at repairing the relationship have been exhausted then jointly communicate what the superb result (one that is terrific for each individual in contact) must be. in basic terms keep in mind, cheating is by no ability the respond, and in basic terms will make concerns lots worse! All secrets and methods ultimately have a manner of popping out! good success!
2016-12-17 19:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being unfaithful. You have a right to chat with whoever you want. It's your life. Just when you are online, don't flirt with anyone. Just explain to her, in the past you made an honest mistake, and let her know you're sorry, and that you still
love her. Let her know you have a right to have friends.
2006-08-30 09:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by beagleman2006_2008 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are definately not being unfaithful she seems like she is very insecure maybe she had a bad past experience in one of her relationships or something you should ask her what is the big deal about you chatting online.
2006-08-30 08:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by ca_rissa3505 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you are not cheating. You may be breaking a promise, but I'm not sure about that either.
You are however choosing to engage in an activity that she finds annoying and unsettling. She sounds a bit sensitive. You may have a choice to make soon as to which is more important.
In this case it may be a tough call.
Good Luck.
2006-08-30 08:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by j g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong, but you need to be sensitive to how your wife is feeling. If you've done things in the past to cause her to doubt your faithfulness, you need to be willing to do whatever she asks to earn her trust back if you want to be with her. If you've never given her any reason to distrust your intentions and she still finds reason to doubt you, however, she probably has some self-esteem and insecurity issues that need to be addressed. Be loving and patient with her-- maybe consider setting her up with a therapist to find out why she has such trust issues.
2006-08-30 08:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not being unfaithful. Sounds like she is too insecure with herself and needs to work with that. If you have a strong, healthy relationship, such trivial things shouldn't be an issue.
2006-08-30 13:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by bookworm7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that if you were conversing repeatedly with any one individual about intimate things that you would not want her to hear or read, it's cheating.
Other than that your girl should figure out how to relax, and get off your back. She's making a big deal out of nothing. If she can't back off, offer her access to your Yahoo! If that doesn't get her off your butt, then you should offer to leave her since you're causing her so much strife. sarcastically!
2006-08-30 08:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by "contact." If you are on-line chatting and flirting, etc... with women, you're on dangerous ground.
The bigger issue is that you promised to do something and now you are not keeping your promise. Talk with your gf about her concerns and reach a mutual agreement you can both live with -- then keep your promise.
2006-08-30 08:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋