My friend has made many bad choices and I see her about to make another one. She has 2 kids with 2 different guys. 1 child she lost custody of to bad choices. She has been living with her sister for 8 months free of charge. She started dating this guy a few weeks ago. He does drugs and I think he only likes her for 1 thing. She is talking about moving into his RV with him.
I really dont want to watch my friend make another mistake. I am afraid she is to stubborn to listen to her sister or me about this.
What should I do as a friend??
2006-08-30 08:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by Bell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As a friend give her tough love. Do you know what that means? Tell her what she needs to know no matter how it hurts her because if she continues to go down the wrong road, she will more than likely end up hurt or even worse dead. This isn't the time to be concerned about her feelings concern yourself with her life. You should step in in whatever way you see fit. Drug dealers are the worst. She needs to grow up and stop being so selfish. Pray for her and hope to God that she listens because it seems like her life has spiraled out of control and when she hits rock bottom she is going to need a good friend like you. God bless you and I will pray everything works out.
2006-08-30 08:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her what you really think about the situation even if you end up losing her as a friend if anything good comes of it itd be worth it and if you dont tell her and she ends up making another mistake youll just end up feeling guilty for not saying anything in the first place!
2006-08-30 08:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyprincessstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre her friend, im sure she wouldnt mind listening to you. be honest with her and tell her about her kids safety. and if she still doesnt listen after taht .. then theres really nothing you can do. maybe except be there for her after she realizes the mistake and say i told you so. ha no im kidding.. but seriously .. you can only do so much and warn her .. and if she doesnt listen, then she doesnt care that you care for her. good luck =/
2006-08-30 08:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u claim she's ur friend then u shouldn't have a problem expressing ur concern.. let her know that she needs to get on her own to 2ft and get her own pl so that her and her children can have a place to call home..
she don't need to be moving her kids from one temp situation to another especially around a man she barely knows.. tell her to think of her kids and not her twot......
2006-08-30 08:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a video or some kind of proof to show her that her new boyfriend doesnt truely love her. also persuade her not to do it for her kids sake.
2006-08-30 08:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go talk to her because it sounds like she might end up getting hurt or worse.
2006-08-30 08:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ressa08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and help pick up the pieces when she crashes again.
2006-08-30 08:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her make the mistakes,because if she doesn't make mistakes then how can she learn from them?
2006-08-30 08:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋