my bf and i (both over 30) are wrestling with the fact I may be pregnant.. I had 1 + and 1- test so its up in the air at the moment and I am 12 days late... he is very quiet.. i want to reassure him that his feelings are valid.. and that if I am its okay or not we are good..I want to open it up but be light hearted about it.. Q:What are some fun ways to do this???
2006-08-30 08:05:45 · 7 answers · asked by red74 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I think you have solved your own problem right there. Tell him just what you wrote,"I believe your feelings are valid, How do you feel." Opening up dialog about planned or unplanned parenthood is never easy, if you don't exactly know where your partner stands, Try sticking a pillow under your shirt while you dance to some club music then ask him if he still finds you sexy maybe breaking the uncomfortable silence with pure silliness would help open the floor for further discussion!! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 08:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+1-1=0
2006-08-30 15:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
False positive pregnancy tests are very rare. If you have had a positive test, it is very likely that you are pregnant, regardless of whether you have also had negative tests. Go ahead and schedule your first doctor's visit just to be sure. As for your boyfriend, try telling him that you think you are pregnant and that you are nervous about it but also excited, and explain the things that you have thought of that have helped you to feel better. Then ask him whether he has been feeling the same way and what are his thoughts on things. If you spill your guts first, he will feel more comfortable doing the same. Then invite him to come to your first doctor's visit to find out what's going on. If your doctor is the type that does an ultrasound at the first visit, it is something he will probably not want to miss!
2006-08-30 16:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by Cara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont really know what your question is but I can tell you that you can have a false negative but not a false positive.
2006-08-30 15:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by tristarr212003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun way to do what? 1+ 1- ????????
2006-08-30 18:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by 2Hott2Touch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is your question?
2006-08-30 15:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by instilleddistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what you are asking.
2006-08-30 15:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋