Is it wrong for a mature 16 year old girl to date a 22 year old guy.. they've been together for 2 years already and still staying strong and are in love...help?
2006-08-30 08:00:01 · 11 answers · asked by spankyskitloser 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will try to be open and honest here and not be too judge mental okay?
I say this because I am a mother of two daughters, and I don't want to sound like someone who has already made a jugdement about others, without taking a look at myself............
Now in saying this I must say first that I do understand the older guy/younger girl relationship, I was in a relationship with a 24 yr-old guy when I was 17 yrs-old, so I can honestly say: "Been there, Done that"
And in saying that when I was 16 yrs-old I went into a court room and got legal custody of myself at the age of 16 years-old, So I was considered an adult, well, old enough to at least take care of myself, and a year or so later I was preganant with my daughter, I feel like if you are in a relationship with an older person, you need to have some level of maturity, because there will be a time in that relationship where the older person will feel like they own you in a way and they will treat you as such if you are not aware of it, that is what I mean when I say a level of maturity. How do your parents feel about it? I hope that you are ready for such a commitement, because that is what it will be. see most 16 yr-olds want to party and hang out with their friends, they want to just "date" casually but, a person in their 20's have done most of this already so they are ready to settle down and become responiable, are you ready for such a commitement? If you are then you have my blessings, If not take your time and think about it okay?
Good Luck..........
2006-08-30 08:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six years in age difference is not really much. Nevertheless, they might seem to appear distant, since they both are very young. But, with time, while the mature in age and go into their late 20’s, the age difference will seem less or won’t even notice.
It is difference in maturity what must worry people, and most importantly, must be the couples concern. If they are comfortable, carry on regardless of rude comments.
2006-08-30 15:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by etherberg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's wrong because you are not 18 yet and what is more wrong is that 2 years ago you guys were together and you were 14.If he wants to marry you he shooed wait 2 more years to be with you but if he doesn't want to marry you, you shooed leave him because 6 years between you and him is to much
2006-08-30 15:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is wrong! the girl is to young to be in that kind of relationship. If she was 20 and he was 26 it would be different. The girl is just to young and knows nothing about life or dating. Help her get out of it if you can.
P.S. Where the heck are her parents??????
2006-08-30 15:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good god that is wrong first off from a friend who had experience some guys like to date much younger girls because they can mold them into how they want them like usually when a lady dates an younger guy what happens he is on her butt like no ones business and he does whatever she wants him to do its like having a boy toy you know so its the same way thats disgusting tho seriously if that was my daughter that guy would be in prison so fast his head would be spinnin
2006-08-30 15:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years already. so a 20 year old guy was dating a 14 year old.
better be glad he wasnt seeing my daughter, he would be chopped fuggen bait, what a pervert scumbag azzwipe pedophile.
2006-08-30 15:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by digital genius 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Yes, it's wrong.
2006-08-30 15:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by burger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It' s against the law.
2006-08-30 15:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jail bait
2006-08-30 15:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..... he likes girls who are under age and dont know much prob
2006-08-30 15:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋