I'm with a guy who I love alot for 2 years now and we have a 1year old little girl. I feel just because I love him doesn't mean we should be together. We fight really bad most of the time. but when we aren't fighting we are really in love, but I feel the fighting is worse then it truely should be and its not fair to our little girl!! HELP PLEASE!
2006-08-30 07:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by higginslove3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fighting "bad" around is child will be bad for her, so I'm happy to hear you're concerned about it and want to fix it. Hopefully your guy feels the same way. If so, it's not too hard to learn how to fight fair, as long as both of you are willing to give it a legitimate try. Let's face it -- every couple has disagreements and arguments. It's how you resolve them that counts!
2006-08-30 08:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you love somebody doesn't mean your in love. Sometime realtionship just dont work out and it sucks even more when you have a child, but it is not good for the child to see fighting. Maybe since you say that there are times when you do have good moments together you should try a seperation. You dont have to see other people, just live seperatly, dont talk as often (except for when you need to talk about the child) and see how you feel. You might come to realize that life is better that way, or maybe it will bring you closer when you realize how much you appreciate eachother in your lives. Either way you should get an answer.
2006-08-30 15:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to fight. Check into counseling or better yet, domestic violence classes - even if there is no hitting or whatever, these classes offer up some fantabulous ways to fight. Seriously.
2006-08-30 15:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're constantly fighting, then you're not doing the child any favors by staying there. That child needs love and security. If you don't have what you need to give it that, then move on.....and find it! Good Luck!!
2006-08-30 15:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you guys fight about. You probably need to compromise. Share days .... get some books ...go to some websites. Go to counseling.
2006-08-30 15:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help if you want to be with him ,you need counseling.
2006-08-30 15:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋