My wife thinks that I am overly affectionate. When it comes to being married, I do think one could receive too much affection.
2006-08-30 07:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by maf20057 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I forgot to mention. We hardly ever kiss or careess. She is not very affectionate.
2006-08-30 08:05:57 · update #1
she doesn't deserve you . maybe she is doing something that's making her feel guilty every time you show her what a great guy you are
2006-08-30 07:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well I don't think you can "love" a person too much, however, my boyfriend is overly affectionate to me too. He's actually the sweetest guy I've ever met...loves me to pieces. But what you need to understand hon, is that some people (like me) need a certain amount of breathing room. I hate feeling smothered....I don't need OODLES of space...but I do need to not feel smothered. My best advice would be to try to find that balance so that you don't drive her away. I understand that the affection is a reaction to the emotion and that is beautiful...but for me (and perhaps your wife) just a little more breathing room would be a better expression of love...because if it's real love, it cares how the other person feels as well. I really hope I helped you! My very best wishes to you! :)
2006-08-30 14:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes WHEN you become suffocation or controlling it can damage the relationship. If she is telling you it's too much just back off. You don't have to drool over her stay stuck on her back to let her know you care. No one likes someone who seems overly needy. It's great to do something special once in a while when you are constantly trying to whoo her with affection it's has the opposite effect and just gets ANNOYING.
2006-08-30 14:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is possible. My husband is also VERY affectionate, and sometimes its a bit overboard, for me personally. Dont get me wrong, I love affection, but when it is constant, I sort of have no time to "miss it, and want it". I think its great to have an affectionate man, b.c its not the most common thing, but there should be a bit of balance I think.
2006-08-30 14:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I on the other hand think it is wonderful for a man to be overally affectionate unless it is in bad taste in public,she should be happy that you love her so much and show her so much attention,alot of women would love that.
2006-08-30 15:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AS bad as i hate to say it yes you can be!!Its called smothering.My husband never could keep his hands off me and after awhile it got old and i got where i was hating him even touching me.He told me he loved me 3000 times a day which dont get me wrong i loved being told that but 3000 times!!Give some space.let her breath!!
2006-08-30 15:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody is touchy-feely. There is such a thing as too much , it feels like being crowded. Each individual has different(Personal space) requirements.
2006-08-30 14:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think so. I would love for someone to make me feel like that way. But, remember to give her some space so that she doesn't feel traped. I think she is very luck y to have someone like you.
2006-08-30 15:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by JAMIE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i have you? i would love to receive affection from my husband. maybe we need to switch!
2006-08-30 14:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by nikared69 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so desperate for a bit of affection, why don't you divorce her and marry me instead! I am so jealous! I bet you love her, that's why...
2006-08-30 14:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋