Sex is totally different for me and my boyfriend. He always just wants to hit it and quit it. For me, I would much rather have romance, passionate kissing and stuff. He always wants me to wear costumes, but it's so hard to get into it when I never get what I need in bed. I just want to have a serious make out session with my boyfriend! How do I get him to do this more often?
2006-08-30 07:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to talk to him and find a common ground where both of you will be happy.
Tell him your need and let him know its important that you're satisification is important too in this relationship. I think he'll turn around.
2006-08-30 07:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Costumes?
2006-08-30 07:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key! Talk to him. Don't assume he knows what you want and need. Tell him, in language he understands!
2006-08-30 07:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he can make out with you for x amount of time that he'll get a special "reward" later.
2006-08-30 07:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by CRtwenty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving him what he wants, that will get his attention. Then have a talk with him and share your frustrations. If he doesn't change, dump him.
2006-08-30 07:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can do two things.
1.talk to u r bf.
2.let me be u r bf.
i m sure, this will solve u r plbm
2006-08-30 07:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by da_great_viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with him, tell him what you want, and demand it...or tell him to hit it somewhere else...while you find a man who won't shortchange you.
2006-08-30 07:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him outright, look there is a guy that will romance me if you don't!
Then call me!
2006-08-30 07:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PROBABLY DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO DO, MOST MEN DONT. YOU HAVE TO SHOW HIM. IF HE STILL CANT GET IT RIGHT, MOVE ON, IT WONT GET ANY BETTER
2006-08-30 07:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him open about what you want
2006-08-30 07:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋