when ur freind need ur help, u offer her the help with ur full willingness but when u r needy, she denies by saying that she does'nt know anything what to do.
2006-08-30 07:44:08 · 13 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That is how you can tell who has your back when you really need them and who doesn't.
See we sometimes think that if we are true friends with someone that means that they are too your friend but, I am sorry it's just not that way all the time............
When times are rough and you really need someone who is your friend they will be there for you, that is why we need to be sure who is really a friend and who is just someone you know......I hope that things turn out alright for you and I also hope that in the end you will really know who your true friends are and who are just people you know.................
2006-08-30 08:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that once. What you have to do is tell this friend that you feel like ur feelings aren't even being heard. Tell her you don't mean to sound selfish or needy, but you have ur problems to and if ur gunna help her the least she can do in return is help you. It may work out, but it also may not. If it doesn't, just move on. You don't need greedy friends like that neways.
2006-08-30 07:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweetthang93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, thats fine. Think that this was an oppurtunity given to you to know your friend better. If she is not ready to help you, their might be some one who can give u a helping hand and moreover i think you can help yourself better than others.....if not able to do it leave it to time as it is a better JUDGE. However i think you should not stay away from your friend who denied to help you, just be normal and causal to her and certainly when she is in problem, she will try to seek your help but cannot come to to you...as she perfectly denied when you were in need of her.
2006-08-30 08:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think such frenz r not ur true frenz so dont trust her but dont even ditch her nd u help her whenever she needs help as u should not chan ge your self for any one keep doing good without expecting anything from her thts all wot i would say
2006-08-30 20:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
freindship is the only relationship in which there is no limitation. Dont expect any thing from your freind and U will always be happy. Expectations always makes one depressed.
2006-08-30 15:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by meher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn a lesson---this is life. Move on. Maybe some one will help you. The world moves on the principle of cause and effect.
2006-08-30 08:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Uma K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is unreliable, selfish and not trustworthy.
Get rid of her fast.
You dont find a selfless friends in your life time.
Just understand them and leave them or keep them.
Read on:
"Be courteous to all, make friendship with few, try those few well and give them your confidence".
2006-08-31 06:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not really know what to do?
but if u know that she is feigning ignorance
then u chose a wrong person to make friends with
well no hard feelings!!!!
u will learn from this mistake
u cant be ditchsd second time
be thankfull to her that she revealed herself early!!!!!
n remebr every one does mistakes but ony fools repeat them
tkcare
2006-08-30 08:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by jitendra c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, cut the crop ...............
when u need help and ur friend denies then i think he/she is not ur true friend and start avoiding them becoz they have a business mentality from u and will be only using u for their purpose and u will be in trouble , so cut the crop....
2006-08-30 08:03:48 · answer #9 · answered by sonu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not the friend you thought she was, just tell her that you don't apppreciate her not being there for you,when you always been there for her/
2006-08-30 07:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋