I was listening on the radio about women giving their signficant others an ulitmatitum to marry them or they leave. I personally dont agree with that because ur forcing someone to do something they dont want to do. And if ur not getting want u want out of the relationship then you need to move on.
2006-08-30 07:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's f'n stupid! I would NEVER give my guy an ultimatum to marry me or i'm out. I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me, makes NO sense. And like you said, you are pressuring and forcing them to make a decision they are not ready for or maybe they don't want.
2006-08-30 07:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with it myself, but if the girl wants commitment and he doesn't, then they should break up anyway.
I have a friend who tol dher boyfriend if he doesn't propose after they've been dating 5 years, its over. That seems harsh to me and then theres pressure on him. they are both young too. They only have a little while left till the 5 year mark! what will happen?!
2006-08-30 07:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by kermit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't phrased as an "ultimatum", but I did tell my significant other that if after a year and a half of our relationship he's still "not ready", I will have to go looking elsewhere, no hard feelings.
2006-08-30 07:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. I would have never given my hubby an ultimatum. He wanted to marry me as badly as I wanted to marry him!
2006-08-30 07:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha ha. I dont' think a woman has ever done this and followed through. Guys you have nothing to worry about except a little complaining! STAY SINGLE!
2006-08-30 07:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is marriage so much better than just 'being together' anyway?
It's just a label and a last name... I have been with my guy for years now.... I want to marry him someday... when we BOTH have decided its time. Right now, I'm just happy being with him.
2006-08-30 07:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you need to force their hands a bit. Get them to realise what they have in their lives whether or not they want to lose it.
2006-08-30 07:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bloke replying to this, but my other half once said to me '' if I'm good enough to live with for 10 years and good enough to have your child, then why am i not good enough to marry ''. what could i say to that, she was very right what she was saying. we got wed a few months later!!
2006-08-30 07:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, thats so controlling. yea i understand that after a while it would be a good idea especially if your relationship is strong. but i would never say something like that, that's just playing games.
2006-08-30 07:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
^5's for Tom Leykis.
Women who give Ultimatums are all of a sudden single.
2006-08-30 07:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋