How do U tell someone?

Question

that they need to do something about the pussie pimples they have on their face looks terrible. I go for a coffee everymorning at this certain coffee shop, and when this guy is on duty, his face will have another yellow pimple sticking out of his face.. It seems everytime I see him the pimples are always in different place., and they stick out like they need to be squeezed or even if he would wash his face and use a hot rag and lay it on them, it would drain them.. I mean, like come on this guy has to know he has these.. How can I tell him about this, without hurting his feelings.. He is a nice kid.. Plzzzzzzz give me some suggestions how to approach this situation..

Answer 1

unless you know him really well, don't say anything about it! if you do, say something like "hey i found a new product at target (or wal mart) that i think you would like! " or something like that! and then buy it for him or give it to him for christmas or his birthday! and hope he gets the clue!

Answer 2

Some people really don't know cause these things often fill up after your finished looking at yourself in the mirror in the morning.

Just Say When You See One (with a smile), "you've got a pimple ready to go there" He'll promptly get rid of it and be thankful to you for saying so.

I have the same thing with shaving, If i shave more than every two days, My neck part looks like a spaghetti strainer but not till 10-15mins later and after i've been somewhere and Interacted with alot of people i know and not know, I come home to find my neck covered in blood, and i think "how could they not tell me"
(i think it's very inconsiderate of them not to do so.)


HOPE THIS HELPS

Answer 3

This is a very delicate situation. You will have to think hard about the correct way to let him know. Of course you should only tell him when NO ONE else is around. At least something like pimples will be fixed in time. Also, he might be aware of this already, and is taking medication... sometimes it doesn't work.

Answer 4

I'm sure he does know he has them, and you pointing them out will do nothing to make him feel better about himself for it. Do you really think that he hasn't tried to do something about it? Trust me, you're not THAT much smarter than everyone else--- he probably thinks about it every time he looks in the mirror. He may have a skin condition that causes them (like cystic acner)-- he may be under a doctor's care-- he may have terrible allergies to certain products that cause it--- he may need a prescription for some medicine but he doesn't have health insurance and can't afford to get it filled.

You'll only make him feel bad by saying something. It would be downright mean. You say he's a nice guy, so don't hurt his feelings. Just like him for who he is-- flaws and all.

Answer 5

I feel really bad for this kid!... When i was younger i used to break out a lot but mine were under the skin where my skin will get red bumps... I used to HATE, HATE whenever my family or friends will make comments about them or will be like "Oh my God u got another one?"... Come on!!! I knew that already!... and as a teenager you get self-conscious about it but what can u do?? I know i tried everything, washes, creams, dermatologist's treatments but nothing took care of it.. I even tried things that co-workers or customers would tell me to do but it just didn't work!...... Anyway, what I'm trying to tell you is that this kid already knows the problem and I'm pretty sure he has tried different things and unless u can refer him to a good dermatologist u shouldn't comment in his skin, it will just make him uncomfortable..
Now if u already have a semi-friendly relationship with him then tell him 'casually' what you use to keep your skin break-out free!

*** Do not leave an unanimous letter ***
that would be too embarrassing for him, not to mention a little bit insulting!

Answer 6

well i think that everyone goes though that stage and like it sucks fo rhim and im sure he knows that he has them so i suggest that maybe u just wait.. i mean if he is a nice kid it shouldnt matter biut again i am sure that he knows and i am postive that he wouldnt feel ne better about it if sumbody walked up to him andtold him it would embarrass him and he might even end up spitting in ur drink lol u never know wel that is what i think wheter u agree or not is up to u but i truly do hope that u see it my way.. :)

Answer 7

Well since you go there often, you can stair at his zit and when he catch u looking say u remind me of someone i know that has that same issue", then he might talk about it then give him some advice on how to look good.....

Answer 8

be gentle.

and don't do it in front of other people.

I think the more kindness the better. sometimes it's not so much what we say is HOW we say it and I think this is a really delicate thing.

but I think that you knowing how to solve the problem (the hot rags) is really important in this --that you could really be of help in this situation.

just say it with lots of love.

Answer 9

grow up. The poor guy. Of course he knows he has acne. And popping zits can leave scars. There's a lot more to a person than what they look like. And people like you, who get disgusted with other people's looks, are the kind of people that end up with scabies. I hope karma bites you hard.

Answer 10

eww that is gross i see why u want to tell him just tell him that to take care of his face and tell him that you know of this good product called proactive that can maybe help him with his situation he is very young and should take care of it trust me he will thank you for telling him sometimes i have something wrong with me and till some one tells me i wont notice so go for it and tell him i dont think he will get his feelings hurt that bad