The boys in our class keep on harassing my friend and sometimes i am involved too. We don;t do anything inappropriate or where anything slutty and they do those things to us. For example, I was wearing a skirt (a little above the knees) and the boys were lifting it up. Then this boy pushes my friend against the wall and starts to press his body onto her's.Plus they touch us in inappropriate places,spank our asses,e.t.c, e.t.c. I told the teacher that they were "doing inappropriate things to us" not specifiang though (too embarrassed), she told them to stop and in a week they continued. It is horrible. I don't want to tell my parents this, how could i tell them it even? HELP!
2006-08-30 07:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell your parents , I know it will be hard but that is preferable to being raped, seeing it coming and doing nothing at all. You need men to respect you, you need to command respect from them. Telling the teacher was a step in the right direction, but you still need to tell your parents. What theose boys are doing is very wrong and it needs to stop. No one should be able to lift up your skirt, you should have kicked him in is nuts, I think you and your friend should sign up for a martial arts class that way you can defend yourself from perverts and other people who wish to harm you.
please go tell your parents they can help you.
2006-08-30 07:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Joyann R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you and your friend are silent spectators these boys are crossing their limits.Its high time you retaliate.Just warn the boys that you have tolerated enough and if this continues you will be forced to go highre authorities and that will be the end of their education in that school.Dont give them any ultimatum.Just say from this moment onwards.
If you have sister elder to you,school teacher or any elderly person like your aunt confide in them about the happenings in class.They will definitely will be able to help you out in this matter.You can confide in your parents as well as they every right to know whats happening.You dont have to say in detail but can definitely hint at the happenings in school.They will get the message and act accordingly.But do confide in some elderly person as soon as possible before things get out of hands.
As a last resort just say that you will inform the boys parents regarding their behaviour in class.Ask your friend to garner support from her side and she must defintely inform the higher authorities as she was the subject of humiliation in class.Act fast.Good luck.
2006-08-30 07:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go straight to the principal, and be VERY EXPLICIT! There is no need for you and your friend to be embarrassed. There is every need for these guys to be expelled. Right here in my home town 17 boys were arrested because of a year long sexual abuse of a girl. She too was afraid and embarrassed.
This WILL NOT go away on it's own. In fact, it will escalate. These boys will go from "spanking" you to gang-raping you in a heartbeat.
Stop the abuse NOW!
2006-08-30 07:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents, because you do not deserve to be treated like this. even if you do dress provocatively, it still doesn't give them the ok to harass you. sometimes, you have to be assertive with the boys, and get loud and just straight up tell them no, otherwise they won't respect you or take you seriously. however, if i were you, i'd tell the principal. something can be done about this. also, you could try kicking them in the balls the next time they try to touch you. or at least warn them that you will kick them in the balls.
2006-08-30 07:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have to tell your parents. This is a very serious problem; it's sexual abuse. Those boys need to be punished so that they stop and never try that again. If necessary, they may have to contact the principal and the board of ed. You have rights and those rights are being violated.
2006-08-30 07:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell these jerks that they can be expelled for these things. Next time go to the teacher and tell her specifically what they did. They can get in big trouble for that.
2006-08-30 07:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to immediately speak to the guidance counselor at school. You are being sexually harassed. Your teacher, I believe, was required to take immediate action and failed to address it in a manner where it stopped. Speak to your guidance counselor.
2006-08-30 07:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to tell someone higher then your teacher. Maybe, you should tell your parents.
2006-08-30 07:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL YOUR PARENTS, THE PRINCIPAL, EVERYTEACHER AND ANYONE ELSE AROUND. IF THEY COME UP TO YOU START SCREAMING, SOMEONE WILL PAY ATTENTION.
2006-08-30 07:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by deby k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋