we have been 2gether for 3 years and she is my 1st real gay relationship, we had a hard time last year, as i ended up getting depressed on a personal issue and i treated her badly cuz i was so low, she has forgiven me but she hasnt forgotten,i love her soooo much, i cant live without her, can anyone help me
2006-08-30 07:16:57 · 24 answers · asked by doss_gia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-30 07:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-11 15:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sad as it may seem, you might not be able to fix this. But lets just say you can. You have to show her that you really are over that tough spot in your life and your not going to drag her through the mud anymore. The best way to do this is to be totally honest and try to remind her of the love you guys have shared and how it could never be replaced. Love is so tricky, it won't be easy and you never know what will happen tomorrow. So you should always try to place your feelings and not to take it out on those who love you. I hope it works out for you, but if it doesn't the best thing you can do is to learn from your mistakes. Good luck!!
2006-08-30 07:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by princess_julia_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sell yourself short. Of course you CAN live without her. Understand that people change and move as time goes by. Sometimes people change in ways that makes a relationship suffer. It's not your fault, it's just time to move on. Time heals the heart. Give yourself time to sort yourself out. And then start dating again. Good luck!
2006-08-30 07:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by BeckyParty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have hurt her so badly in the past that she might be afraid that it will happen again in the future. Sometimes when we are in a relationship and we show aside of our selves that is bad, you will scare them away. Someone once told me that once something is broke it can't be fixed. I dont know how true that is. Best of luck!
2006-08-30 08:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took her for granted and demonstrated that by treating her badly.You need to make sure that there's not someone else,someone who stepped in while you were away (so to speak), otherwise she would try and work this out with you if she truly every loved you. Maybe she fears that you will become unstable again there by being unreliable for HER needs.
2006-08-30 07:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by lcsotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she hasn't forgotten, then maybe it's best to try and move on b/c if not, then your relationship may be headed for a downfall. Have you explained to her why you were treating her so badly ? Ask her why she won't forget and move on. Maybe she isn't certain that you've completely changed.
2006-08-30 07:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre better off without her This lifestyle will cause you misery and unhappinss. I would suggest prayer and consults with a minister if possible. dont you love your parents more? Have you told them about all of this. Talk to them ok? good luck.
2006-08-30 07:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you treated her badly for like, a year, and now you expect her to still love you?
Yeah, that's how love works.
I don't know what it wil take for her to love you again, in fact, I don't know if you even you deserve her love.
Next time, don't be so selfish.
At least she forgave you, damn....
Oh, and stop sleeping with women.
2006-08-30 07:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by monotol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh u r going through a tough time arent u! but people cant turn on and off like a tap she has emotions too, try to understand her, also u need to woo her again.
i hope everything will be okay, just give her time you'll see.
2006-08-30 07:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by shariwharton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋