Seriously, do you think that leaving a kid in day care is good for him? I know there are exceptions where single mothers etc... must work, but other than that, SELL THE BOAT, FORGET THE FANCY CAR, and stay home with your kids!! They will turn out better.
2006-08-30 07:00:19 · 23 answers · asked by Aaronkun 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes, in addition, I think that they need 2 positive role models in their lives.
Also I think that parents need to be taught some skills before procreating. Child development, child psychology, first aid/cpr, financial planning, and be required to take a year of therapy themselves.
Too many parents are repeating the mistakes of their childhood, and of their parents. We need to become better educated and prepared parents to raise better educated and balanced children.
Think about people that want to change genders the are required to take years of therapy before they can do the surgery, because its such a life changing event....isnt having a child one of the BIGGEST life changing events? You are a parent FOREVER. Its not something you should just jump into!
2006-08-30 07:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by friskygimp 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sure. A miserable, brain-dead mother tied to the kitchen stove, covered in vomit would make the kids turn out much better! When we no longer have any biological need for men, this might even be a good idea. Here's hoping that day is coming soon. For now, maybe the dad should stay home and cook, clean, shop, organize and change diapers and Mom can go out to work to support the family. She's probably much more qualified for a high-paying job.
2006-08-30 07:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by alison k 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would love to stay home with my daughter but I am a single parent like you mentioned. But if i was a stay at home mom I would still send her to a daycare for a few hours while I run errands so that she would be able to learn to interact with other children and learn some social skills. I think staying home with the kids can also be done by fathers though...There is nothing wrong with a MAN giving all their attention to their child either. It's not just women's work anymore.
2006-08-30 07:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i imagine maximum moms have the favor to artwork and much purely HAS to artwork. i'm a SAHM yet i'm fortunate, a minimum of to me. some moms would imagine i'm insane! LOL i love being living house. some moms could be out and in contact with different adults and that is fantastic. I have a lot appreciate for mother and father too who've or choose to artwork. They do two times the artwork! I do an excellent type of work at my living house and that i do purely not imagine i'd do as well if I had to workout habitual of the living house. it isn't ordinary and this is gotta be difficult. I say extra power to them! LOL i don't believe of human beings could be nervous about what human beings on YA imagine because a number of them are ill and twisted.
2016-12-05 23:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, there are plenty of stay at home moms that aren't worth crap. Being a stay at home mom has nothing to do with having good parenting skills and raising your kids the right way. It can go either way. Quit generalizing/stereotyping. I've seen so many "stay at home moms" who sit on their butt all day long, watching T.V., yelling at the kids when they get in front of the T.V., taking naps. What do you have to say about their kids? Do you really think they will turn out better?
2006-08-30 07:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Fool in the Rain 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is not necesarilly true. Kids respond to what they see at home or daycare. You might be a stay home mom but what happens if that me argues with the dad all day long and the kids see that, do you not think they will grow up thinking it is ok for them to fight all the time. What happens to moms that use drugs, smoke or drink in front of their children. I think that no matter if you work or stay home the most important thing is to set good examples and teach them good matters and of course spend quality time with them
2006-08-30 07:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by lasvegasgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! but you are forgetting the Fathers. I think all children would be better off if both parents could find a way to stay and work at home. That's just not the kind of world we live in for most of us but it ought to be.
2006-08-30 07:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be better for most kids. But there are some kids who are better off at a daycare because their mothers are so neglectful and abusive. I worked at a school where half the kids were bonkers on Friday. They didn't want to go home. They knew the weekend meant 48 hours in their house, and they didn't want to be there. Some would even ask me to come home with me. School was their haven.
2006-08-30 07:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by ThatLady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. I am lucky enough to be able to stay at home with my kids while my husband works. It is not always easy on the finances, but I think we have really great kids because of it, and that is much more important to us.
2006-08-30 07:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on circumstance...if the mother is a hands on mother and has a structured day planned for her children and disciplines them well....then yes of course they will be better.....but if they are not hands on and do not discipline and basically say...."go play in your room" then of course they will not turn out better. children learn from playing and they retain information better when you get down and play WITH them. I work from home and have a three year old and a seven month old. if i could afford it i would put my older son in preschool a couple days a week. interacting with other children is good for them.
2006-08-30 07:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by crystalfaria11306 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋