The problem is this, ive been with my husband for 7yrs and while we were just bf and gf he treated me like a princess and always bought me gifts on our anniversary. But since weve been married, ive never even recieved a gift or card. Not for any holiday or occasion. I always give him at least a card. It kinda makes me feel bad. What should i do?
2006-08-30 06:55:37 · 6 answers · asked by angeleyez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If there are $$ problems, try a hand-written letter expressing your thoughts; if $$$ isn't an issue, he's being an insensitive lout and you should take HIM out to dinner.
Imply that next year, he takes you out or you'll find someone who will.
2006-08-30 06:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking him, Why? Ask him why and explain how it makes you feel. All relationships change over time, but it sounds odd that a man would stop all cards and gifts for all holidays and occasions after marriage.
Only his response will give you some guidance as to how to proceed. Some will tell you to stop getting him anything, even a card, but that won't resolve anything or make you feel any better. I just hope it's not an indication that your husband is no longer the person you thought he was when you married him.
Good luck.
2006-08-30 14:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,talk to your husband and tell him how miserable you feel about this and ask him the reason for not giving you any gifts and why has he stopped making you feel special....
this anniversary you should plan a holiday,get away from life for a couple of days and get to spend some quality time with each other to get back yourselves..........and your love!!
2006-08-30 13:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister~ I dont know if you are christian or not but the Bible calls husbands to nourish and cherish their wives. This can manifest in a thousand different ways. If you do not feel he is following God's direction in this area, the Bible says that you as a wife can change your husband, without a word through your own conduct. Continue (or start) to be a loving wife and reverence him, not for what he gives but for who he is. Through your own love you can transform him. I encourage you both to seek God's Word as it relates to marriage-therein lies all the answers you need.
God Bless you and keep you...
2006-08-30 14:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him. You deserve a little something for a gift!
2006-08-30 14:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This year, buy yourself a gift.
2006-08-30 13:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋