2006-08-30 06:46:46 · 15 answers · asked by cee jay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only sincerity and devotion
2006-08-30 06:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him that question. Before you get married pay attention to his mother. He will most likely expect a wife like his mother. Whatever she says, thinks, and feels will probably what he expects you to be like. So talk with him. Have a long conversation on what he expects marriage to be like, how he thinks he is suppose to act as a husband and how he thinks you are suppose to act as a wife. Will he stay in the US or want to move? Will he want you to get married in India (most indians go back to india to get married, not saying that is bad but maybe your family wont want to travel there. I say this because of all the indian friends i have had they always go back to india to a relative's wedding, even if the relatives live in the US)?
Ask everything. Ask how many kids he wants, if any. Tell him what you think also. Dont marry someone until you can be totally honest with them and discuss everything first. What religion will he want your children to be raised? These are types of questions you MUST ask now.
2006-08-30 07:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would anyone answer that. there are close to 2 billion Indian people on this earth and you found one. You need to have premarital counseling and discuss all that. What are your goals, expectations as spouses, as potential parents of future children, how would you negotiate cultural differences and what are the areas that you differ in and hold strong feelings about. are you willing to incorporate cultural traditions in your child rearing , etc
I think it is prudent for all engaged couples to talk about these issues before marriage! PS I'm an Indian woman married to an American man!
2006-08-30 06:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if he has agreed to marry an American girl,then his mindset has already accepted you as you are.
Indian men like to be pampered. A little devotion,and you have won his heart and soul.
2006-08-30 07:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Uma K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have documented data that the guy is committing a bigamy. it is the guy against whom you could document expenses who occurs to be your husband, and not the lady who marries him. the lady will possibly no longer observe of the certainty that it is a bigamy on area of the guy, as a result the lady is harmless. in view that marriage is happening in India, Indian regulations factor on the guy as bigamous and not the lady. Now that woman has already been jailed for bigamy in India already interior the previous ? specific she would be pronounced to the police with helping data as she is committing the comparable crime knowingly back in India. guy is charged with bigamy and the lady is charged with marriage fraud, given the certainty that she went to reformatory formerly for comparable motives of bigamy. the two are a social gathering to the cirme.
2016-10-01 02:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, first a dot on your forehead, then stuff yourself with food and wrap yourself in silk,that should do it. Sorry for the rude answer, but it is kind of a dumb question! Love is the real answer!
2006-08-30 06:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
these days there are lot's of Love Marriages going on, But it will be ok for him as he is definnetely a part of todays generatinion. So all you need to do, is respect his parents....give food to him(nice food)
2006-08-30 06:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what he in person expects from u but being a common man one always expect from his\her partener love trasparency in relationship and devotion.....
2006-08-30 07:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by hanspie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a normal indian husband... will like his wife to be a good home maker.. likes her wife to take care of the family... likes to control his wife... likes to follow the family traditions... likes to satisty his wife in the early stage and likes to get satisfied in the final stage...best of luck...
2006-08-30 07:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by simplesolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, don't change anything, both of you will learn to adjust thru time, I am an asian too and my wife is from CA,
2006-08-30 06:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your engaged to a guy you apparently DON'T know if you are asking what he will expect of you............. Do not marry this person......... that would be REALLY not smart at all........ blessed be.
2006-08-30 06:51:06 · answer #11 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋