which one is the most important thing during marriage?

Question

- sex?
- communication?
- fiancial ability

please don't tell me ..."all of them", i already know those three are important, but which one is the most important one?

Answer 1

Communication. It's the foundation for everything else.

Communication =

• honesty and openness in everything
• expressing your needs
• asking how the other person feels
• asking the other person what their needs are
• explaining why you feel a certain way
• explain why you're upset or moody so your partner doesn't feel like the cause
• explaining what bugs you and why
• ask how you can improve the relationship
• always offer solutions not complaints
• always speak to each other in a gentle, caring tone
• pay attention to what matters to the other person
• tell the other person what they mean to you frequently


Good luck! :)

Answer 2

Communication is MOST important. That means telling the truth before and during marriage, being able to fully trust each other. It means talking especially BEFORE getting married so there is no surprise later, say the man wanting 7 kids and the woman wanting none or 1. Things like that must be disscussed.
Also if the sex is bad then communication can make it better, such as counseling or just finding out what each person wants/ needs.
In addition communication before marriage and during can help prevent marrying a person with horrible credit who will destroy the other persons. Say an over spender or a person who just cant manage finances well. Other than that money doesnt matter, how much or little you have as long as communication is there then each person knows what they are getting into when they get married or are married.

Answer 3

Communication is the most important because with out the this the there two are meaning less.

I.E. If u don't Communicate someone may have already have payed a bill and the other may send another check and u may be short money some where else.

Some sex requires Communication because someone may be not in the mood to have sex then a fight can happen then both of u will be upset over something small.

Answer 4

Communication

Answer 5

Hate to disappoint you, but all three are essential. Sex is a way of communicating. You need to have that type of bond. Without sex you won't have their attention and will lose the communication aspect. If you can't communicate to one another, how will you come to agreement about finances? If you think only one is most important, than you are missing out. I like to call it the domino effect. One can't stand alone.

Answer 6

Communication is most important. The 3 things that married people fight about most is Money, Sex, & the Kids. If you've got good communication you can avoid most of the fights,

Answer 7

Sex is the most important sex is a let out of all the days frustrations it is something enjoyable that forms a bond and it can always make you fall in love all over again i would say sex is 50% of a relationship and communication is 30% the money is last because it comes and goes

Answer 8

Out of the three, I have to say communication.

Answer 9

Communication, if you are able to talk to each other you can work out all the problems. Remember communication is not just talking but listening also.

Answer 10

The most important thing in marriage is your commitment to one another. That no matter how hard things get DIVORCE is not an option (excluding abuse and cheating is a deal breaker for me). You work it out you move on. You grow together you love together. Live for today....Learn from yesterday... and pray for tomorrow!