and i mean true relationship with so much love from both sides,beyond reallity...it happened to me too but i didn't let the feeling develop...i want to know who experienced this and what did you do?
by the way...i think you're a sheep if you let go a true relation for a new one,a new crush just because you couldn't handle it
2006-08-30 06:36:35 · 10 answers · asked by Linu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I was there in summer 2003. Had a crush on this pretty redhead with blue eyes where I use to work. The dangerous thing I did that was also the right thing: talk to my girlfriend about it.
She understood that love is not an on/off switch; if the chemistry is right, it happens. I told her I needed to talk about it because I wanted to let some of it out of me. I reassured her that she was more important to me than anything else in the world and that I wouldn't leave her for any other women.
I no longer work there and haven't seen her (the redhead) since. I married my girlfriend a month ago. It all went very well.
2006-08-30 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lyvy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I had a crush - and I turned him down.
I stayed in the relationship only to end it in a year or so after dealing with alcohol abuse.
By the time I was leaving town, my crush had gotten another girl he didn't love pregnant. He was one of those who just love his children. I told him I was going - he said that he loved his little girl beyond belief even if he didn't love the mother. Seems that my crush might have been the better man for me.
I was a child of divorce so I always took the choice of loyalty even when I was heading down the wrong path. I don't think this can be a choice for sheep. You choose the best you can with what you have at the time and grow from the experience. Sometimes I wish I would have had the wisdom and strength to choose my crush - by that time is gone.
2006-08-30 07:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it happened to me. I acted on it and grew bored with it and went back to my husband. My husband knew of it and forgave me. We forgave each other for being in a rut and now are happy again. And I am no sheep. Far from it.
2006-08-30 06:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by a_delphic_oracle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am experiencing that right now. Unfortunately I let my feelings develop and now i am in a very confusing state.
2006-08-30 06:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had many "crushes", while single, and while in a relationship. But it's never been a problem, crushes come and go.
2006-08-30 06:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. i agree. a crush will not last so why throw the other realtionship away.
2006-08-30 07:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and it was the biggest mistake of my life. Never again will i give into temptation!!
2006-08-30 07:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by angeleyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the crush is a fantasy, its not based in reality
2006-08-30 06:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THAT HAPPENS TO VERY ONE, BUT THE THING IS TO ANALISE ITS IS WORTH OR NOT. MY WAS NOT WORTH ED GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-08-30 06:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by mipieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
2006-08-30 06:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋