I am no longer happy at home. I don't even want him to touch me. and the thought of sex makes me sick.
2006-08-30 06:34:10 · 21 answers · asked by nc_broker2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am so sorry. My ex-husband cheated on me before we were even married for a year. I know how you feel. If you know you want out what's holding you up? If there are children in the mix that's makes things a little more hairy. But still if you think that you can never forgive him for what he has done just go and get a good lawyer! Good Luck!
2006-08-30 06:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by amy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move out, but do so when you are ready. If you move out too quickly and you are not financially secure then you may go back. Start tucking money aside in a separate account. If he was the only one doing wrong in the relationship then you should not feel bad about leaving. Restrain from sex and get a hobby.
2006-08-30 06:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by flopper72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your situation. Doesn't sound like he will change. I know your hurt, angry and full of emotions....but you need to consider the following:
1. Who stays and who goes?
2. Who pays the house bills..telephone, electricity, water...?
3. Who's name is on the bill and that needs to be changed.
4. Do you have joint bank accounts. Does your paycheck get automatically deposited there?
5. Mutual funds, investment accounts and savings accounts?
6. Who's making the credit card payments?
7. Who gets the pets?
8. Who gets which car and who's making the payments?
All these things need to be looked after otherwise you're gonna have more things to worry about during the seperation.
Good luck.
2006-08-30 06:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, not good, I feel for you.
If he has cheated on you a couple of times, not sure if he would change his ways. While he may convince you that he can change, once he has the chance to reach a comfort zone with your trust, I believe he may stray once again.
I'd pack your bags and don't look back. What could he say to keep you? Not much! A woman's intuition would say...leave!
Hang in there kid!
2006-08-30 06:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you stay, the worse you will feel. Time to move on with your life and make yourself happy. The first step is always the hardest, so take that step and you will get through it, I promise!
2006-08-30 07:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by twinkies_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, time to make the move. Life it too short to spend it in misery. Leave him and move on, not all guys cheat, there are a few of us good ones left.
2006-08-30 07:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by paul m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him..if thats what u want, and ur not happy with him anymore. Why stay in a relationship if ur not happy? It seems that he is not happy either since hes cheated twice.
2006-08-30 06:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if time heals things if not move on you cant make yourself get over it just dont hold a grudge it will only be extra baggage when you leave good luck
2006-08-30 06:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by classiclady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the relationship once a cheat always a cheat no one deserves that move on with you life their are other fish out there
good luck
2006-08-30 06:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by dolphinchk64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you want me to answer? So, you can divorce him and leave. If you have child make sure he pay for child support. Ummm, I think you can leave and you not the bad person he is.... smiling. wish you luck.
2006-08-30 07:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋