i was called an abomination today for my sexuality, i mean really, shoudnt people like me be allowed to be happy too?
I would never infringe on someone else's life or even use a discriminating word. i love all people, and making someone feel less than you is completely unacceptable! i'm the nicest person imaginable and the guy who called me that i have known for years... so, is there something wrong with me?
2006-08-30 06:19:28 · 48 answers · asked by Michael Reynolds 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
there isn't anything wrong, america is where u are free to do anything except when u kill some one or steal things, but other than that u are just a human being like everyone else, i have no problem with that, and i'm straight
2006-08-30 06:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No,there is nothing wrong with being gay and there isnt anything wrong with you.Who gave them the right to judge?No one.You are a person too,you just happen to have a different sexual preference than some that isnt a big deal.Whoever said you were "an abomination" has issues with himself,that have nothing to do with you.Honestly,if someone is happy with themselves they do not go out of their way to make others feel insignificant in this world.You contribute to the variety in this world and are apart of society as we know it.That isnt a bad thing,you are important too.Dont feel as if you are unimportant because someone is closed minded and think his/her way is the only way.That is what makes this world different and great today is it doesnt matter what sexuality,color,race,background etc you are from you are accepted.Do not worry about someone says,if you are comfortable in who you are from the inside that is what matters.Do not let him get you down,you are not a bad person because of that.Someone once told me,you cant make everyone happy but you can make yourself happy.I live by that,i know i cant make everyone happy but i can make myself happy,if i accept myself for who i am and what i am it doesnt matter what anyone says.That is their issue,not mines.Good luck ,and stand up for what you are.
2006-08-30 06:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People don't like what you do - just like any other person who is doing something wrong. Your body was created for a purpose. the parts of your body already have functions, when you change those functions you are asking for trouble. I have a washing machine at home, I can use it to mix cement - but sooner or later the misuse will cause much damage!!
There are boys and girls for a reason.
Please reconsider your sexuality
If you cannot deal with the opposite sex, try celebacy
You have been muchly lied to and deceived please get truthful information from people who do not have an agenda to subject you to - they are trying to justify their wrong life style by getting everyone they can to do the same thing.
2006-08-30 08:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's NOT IN THE BIBLE! You have a lot of idiots that like to interpret the bible to suit their prejudices. Second, as long as you're a good person-screw the haters! I have a relative who's gay. Wonderful person inside and out. The person who called you an abomination will go to hell quicker than you will! GOD does not need for anyone to speak for him, cause when you die, you'll be facing him by yourself. There won't be a peanut gallery behind you shouting at GOD to send you to hell like he can't speak for himself! Ask the next person who wants to "quote" the bible to show you the passage they got their info from. I guarantee, you'll interpret the passage differently than them. With certifiable nut cases flying planes into buildings, pedophiles, serial rapists & killers, and drive-by shooters out there, you would think SOME people would focus on that than who you want to spend your quality time with. Whatever you want to do with your life, just be a good human being and do the best you can with what you do. Good Luck!
2006-08-30 06:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by dct1218 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep!! Sadly you made a bad lifestyle choice! It is a dirty and gross lifestyle. If you don't want to be treated "badly" then choose to be normal. Normal, healthy people date, marry and have sex with the person of the opposite sex. Think about it. If it wasn't wrong to be gay. Gay people would be able with out help at all to have children and to reproduce asexually. It can't happen.
I don't believe that gay people should be allowed to have kids or get married or for that matter show affection in public. What you do in your own bedroom is your busniess. But, don't show it out in public. I don't want my kids exposed to that kind of stuff. I will teach my children that being gay is a lifesyle choice and it is a wrong lifestyle choice.
2006-08-30 06:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....please don't get upset....but I do not believe in your lifestyle but what I do believe in is your right as an individual to practice any lifestyle you choose. I also believe anyone who goes against the norm will be discriminated agaiinst. This is something you will have to learn to deal with. I am sure you are a perfectly normal and nice person. I know several people who practice a gay lifestyle and as I said before, I do not and I don't approve but if that is what you choose, so be it. It is not for me to judge you.
2006-08-30 06:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it!
I guess somehow in these sick people's minds, since you are a "sinner" by what they believe, it's ok for them to be completely judgemental and cruel.
And somehow they seem to "know" that being gay is a sin because the bible says so. HA HA HA! Just like it was ok for slavery because the bible said so. GUESS WHAT.... that was completely mis-translated!
Forget those people. You know you're a good person, so no one else's opinion of you should matter. (I know, easier said than done).
2006-08-30 06:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by sammie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not let other people get you down with their fearful and uninformed reactions. You are unique and precious - find friends who can appreciate your mind and emotions. By the way, several people have said something about the bible, but they have not read it very well. In Genesis, it says "male and female he created them." This does not mean that some are male and some are female. It means that all of us are both male AND female. Studies of embryonic development have confirmed this. Or take a look at the oyster who changes his/her sex several times in a lifetime.
2006-08-30 07:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. That guy is just making fun because he doesn't like himself. You need to be happy. If you are a nice person like you say, then you deserve to be happy. I think you should do what you likee, and be the person that you want to be. Don't let anybody call you names, or be inapropriate. Just be yourself, and let things role off your back. You are a good enough person to let things go.
2006-08-30 08:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by 4aces 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with being gay and i think you already know that already... i mean look at all you wrote. besides, if every single person on here told you it was, doesn't mean we're right. do what makes you happy if you really are gay. some people nowadays just do it because they can, because society is so accepting of any and everything. if you REALLY are, go for it. if you're just confused, give yourself some time.
2006-09-02 16:00:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋