i found txts from another girl on the weekend on my partners mobile ( i was trying to text my mate as i was out of credit i wasn't purposly looking), i asked him about it and he went mad packed a bag and both his parents were outside my door saying "come on son grab your stuff". we bought this house together and and now he has to decide it he loves me he won't even tell me what the txts were about!! i haven't had an explanation. what should i do when he comes back????? help please
2006-08-30 06:12:04 · 16 answers · asked by LAURA P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell his parents they can keep him.
2006-08-30 06:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were incriminating text messages in that cellphone. If you were smart enough, u should have read it and at least u have something to use against him. Kidding aside, he left you for a text message that u accidentally saw...he packed his things and called his parents to pick him up.....so matured.. let him go...and after his thinking is over....and he comes back.....can u please tell him that u did some thinking too and you figured that u don't want to be with an ***hole like him. Sell the house, divide the equity...buy a condo and enjoy single life. Yay!
2006-08-30 13:18:48 · answer #2 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well looks as if you too should go ahead and split up. Is the house in both of your names? You might want to buy him out. That's a big mistake purchasing a house with someone that is not your spouse. Be ready to sell also. Oh yeah, go ahead and change the locks, that way if he comes back he can't just come in he will have to stand outside and knock. Hope it's raining and hailing outside.
2006-08-30 13:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by bighampjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him back if he reacted so dramatically. Something must be up for him to storm away. He was looking for the excuse. Don't play the fool and take him back without an explanation. How old is he that he needed his parents to come and take him home? Give me a break...let him go.
2006-08-30 13:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by curiousity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, anytime some says they need time to know if they love you it means they usually don't. I've had it done to me and I've done it myself. Let him go!!! It's not worth the heartache. I agree with the other answerer that said to get a lawyer. Since you've purchased a house together you want to protect your investment and your credit. I also wouldn't tolerate the texts from another girl.
2006-08-30 19:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by gottaspider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you caught him before he was ready to discuss his intentions. Maybe he needs time to determine what he really wants to do. When he comes back, remain calm, don't push him, but wait until he is ready to discuss the situation with him. In the meantime, ask yourself how much you really trust him and decide if you need to take some precautions with your assets.
2006-08-30 13:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to stay with his parents sound like a mom ma's boy. The problem was with him not them. If he is seeing someone else then your better off without him. And it shouldn't be a decision he has to make. Doe he love you let's see NOT.
2006-08-30 13:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by confusedfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. We'll honey he has to decide if he wants to be with you or not, and I know it's not easy, but just try and stay busy until he ready to talk. And about those tickets, really don't know what to say. Sorry :(
2006-08-30 13:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a lawyer. Protect yourself.
Then decide if you can tolerate this kind of treatment, you shouldn't have to.
That's all you can do. You can't control another person.
2006-08-30 13:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by LAUGHING MAGPIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chick leave him alone let him decide only he knows what is really going on in his life and how it got soo gave him time if it was meant to happend it will
TIME HEALS ALL CUTS
When hes ready to talk he will you will no trust me you will but .. IN TIME
2006-08-30 13:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks...you deserve to be treated better......be strong...you havent done anything wrong....remember that ok?
2006-08-30 13:16:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋